When it comes to getting back together with your ex boyfriend, it is important to first establish what caused the breakup. Understand that you cannot go and change what may have happened, but accept what happened and see it as something that you can learn from. The first step is to figure out what caused the breakup to occur, this could be anything from on event that may have happened, many events that added up, gradual loss of interest, etc. The point here is to be able to pinpoint the reason that caused the breakup.
A great way to work in the beginning steps of getting your ex boyfriend back, is when you speak or interact with them, that you don't plead for them to come back to you. Do not tell them that you "cannot be without" them; this will most likely drive them further from you. What is important at this time is to be strong, allow time for him to realize that you are confident and self-sufficient with yourself. Be happy for yourself, and be sure to show everyone that you are, not just you're ex boyfriend.
When you can easily assume he has realized that you are happy and content with things, and that you are a strong person regardless of what may have happened, you should look into contacting your ex. This is a good indicator of him noticing you, and having you throughout his mind. Ways of contacting him could be by phone, or meeting somewhere for coffee, just something similar to a friendly get together. Be absolutely certain that you know what to say and when to say it, because when it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back this is not the time for error, so get it the first time. Simply ease into the topic of what may have led the relationship to where it ended up, simply talk about what happened in a dignified and mature manner. Don't come off as a needy person or overreact about what happened in a past relationship, if it happens to come up. Just allow them to be able to figure out that your friendship is something to appreciate, and over time it will become stronger.
Over time their feelings show grow, and when this is obvious, make plans then to make your move in getting back with him. Ask your ex to go have dinner with you or to see a movie, or to just have a fun time with just the two of you. Then you can make the judgment of asking to have him back with you.
When it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back with you, understand that it takes time, and do not rush things, slowly ease into these things and develop the connections you and your ex once had that made the two of you want to be together in the first place.
A great way to work in the beginning steps of getting your ex boyfriend back, is when you speak or interact with them, that you don't plead for them to come back to you. Do not tell them that you "cannot be without" them; this will most likely drive them further from you. What is important at this time is to be strong, allow time for him to realize that you are confident and self-sufficient with yourself. Be happy for yourself, and be sure to show everyone that you are, not just you're ex boyfriend.
When you can easily assume he has realized that you are happy and content with things, and that you are a strong person regardless of what may have happened, you should look into contacting your ex. This is a good indicator of him noticing you, and having you throughout his mind. Ways of contacting him could be by phone, or meeting somewhere for coffee, just something similar to a friendly get together. Be absolutely certain that you know what to say and when to say it, because when it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back this is not the time for error, so get it the first time. Simply ease into the topic of what may have led the relationship to where it ended up, simply talk about what happened in a dignified and mature manner. Don't come off as a needy person or overreact about what happened in a past relationship, if it happens to come up. Just allow them to be able to figure out that your friendship is something to appreciate, and over time it will become stronger.
Over time their feelings show grow, and when this is obvious, make plans then to make your move in getting back with him. Ask your ex to go have dinner with you or to see a movie, or to just have a fun time with just the two of you. Then you can make the judgment of asking to have him back with you.
When it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back with you, understand that it takes time, and do not rush things, slowly ease into these things and develop the connections you and your ex once had that made the two of you want to be together in the first place.