Why would a single woman go to a bar? The reason is for her to meet new guys. The story basically remains the same. Boy meets girl and they click! Well, at least that's how it goes in the movies. In real life it does not happen that way. A man who tries to hit on a woman in a bar usually gets slapped down which is actually confusing as it was the woman's intent to meet get hit on. What went wrong?

You, the guy, can't tell heads or tails in approaching a woman. A wrong approach can be an annoyance instead of an attraction. There are certain points that you should not do in order to avoid common mistakes men make when approaching women.

Do not be all over a girl right after meeting her. Keep your distance at first. Do not try to invade her privacy the moment you exchange names. More often than not, a man tries to force his presence with the woman by sitting next to her and in a way, force her to talk with her. Do not do this as the woman might unconsciously think that she'll be stuck with you all night.

Diffuse that thought by telling the girl that you have to get back to your friends.

Do not act as if you are one sorry loser. Your body language says it all. If you project an image of a timid and shy guy, then no woman would take an interest on you. You need to exude confidence and you can do that by feeling good about yourself. Work on it! Go have a new haircut or a new outfit. Feeling good might as well start with you looking good.

Do not use overrated pick-up lines nor offer to buy a girl a drink. This approach would get you nowhere. Any girl would feel cheap and used if she falls for a "cheesy" line or agrees to accept your offer of a drink. Well, there might be girls who would grab on the chance to get a free drink but hey! You be the judge.

Do not ignore her friends. If the girl is with a group of friends, do not overlook her friends. Say hello to them to acknowledge their presence. Her friends' reaction to you plays a major whether you score or not.

Do not act as if you are God's greatest gift to mankind. Yes, admit the fact that you are not that "hot". Do not pretend to be one. Being confident is different from being a braggart.

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