If you and your ex have broke up, and you don't have the deep feelings anymore for him/her that you once had, the break-up will not affect you so badly.
Yes, you will probably be hurt and angry as to what was said between you and your ex, but you will get over it very quickly.
However, if you still love your ex very much, even after all the trauma of the break-up, you are probably wondering just how to get your ex back into your life.
Sometimes we do irrational things right after we have broken up with someone.
For instance, we will keep calling our ex, or trying to see him/her at home, and the more we fail at actually making contact, the more depressed we become.
This of course, will only make you feel that there is absolutely no hope of getting back together with your ex ever again.
Be kind to yourself, and your ex, and take some time to first get over the break-up.
Even though this may sound ridiculous, it IS the logical thing to do.
You cannot possibly think with a clear mind if you are so stressed out, not only about the break-up, but also by the fact that you are making no headway in contacting your ex at all.
To get your ex back, you HAVE to be in the proper frame of mind, so that you can approach your ex in a positive, confident manner.
You have a much better chance to get your ex back in this way, and this will only be possible if you give yourself the time to begin feeling a whole lot better than you do right after your relationship ended.
In any case, your attempts to contact your ex failed because he/she really doesn't want to be faced with someone begging and pleading for him/her to come back.
Your ex is feeling precisely as you do right now; very angry, hurt, and extremely confused as to what to do about the whole situation, so he/she, like you, needs time to first get over all these bad feelings, and be able to think clearly again.
So, don't make any attempt to get your ex back at this point in time.
Rather concentrate on enjoying your life on your own for a while, and when the time is right, you can go ahead with confidence, and work on ways to get your ex back.
When you and your ex do eventually make contact, you will both be over all the trauma of the break-up, and will be able to talk to each other in a friendly, mature way.
The time that both you and your ex took to get over the break-up could more than likely end positively, with you succeeding in your efforts to get your ex back in your life again.
Yes, you will probably be hurt and angry as to what was said between you and your ex, but you will get over it very quickly.
However, if you still love your ex very much, even after all the trauma of the break-up, you are probably wondering just how to get your ex back into your life.
Sometimes we do irrational things right after we have broken up with someone.
For instance, we will keep calling our ex, or trying to see him/her at home, and the more we fail at actually making contact, the more depressed we become.
This of course, will only make you feel that there is absolutely no hope of getting back together with your ex ever again.
Be kind to yourself, and your ex, and take some time to first get over the break-up.
Even though this may sound ridiculous, it IS the logical thing to do.
You cannot possibly think with a clear mind if you are so stressed out, not only about the break-up, but also by the fact that you are making no headway in contacting your ex at all.
To get your ex back, you HAVE to be in the proper frame of mind, so that you can approach your ex in a positive, confident manner.
You have a much better chance to get your ex back in this way, and this will only be possible if you give yourself the time to begin feeling a whole lot better than you do right after your relationship ended.
In any case, your attempts to contact your ex failed because he/she really doesn't want to be faced with someone begging and pleading for him/her to come back.
Your ex is feeling precisely as you do right now; very angry, hurt, and extremely confused as to what to do about the whole situation, so he/she, like you, needs time to first get over all these bad feelings, and be able to think clearly again.
So, don't make any attempt to get your ex back at this point in time.
Rather concentrate on enjoying your life on your own for a while, and when the time is right, you can go ahead with confidence, and work on ways to get your ex back.
When you and your ex do eventually make contact, you will both be over all the trauma of the break-up, and will be able to talk to each other in a friendly, mature way.
The time that both you and your ex took to get over the break-up could more than likely end positively, with you succeeding in your efforts to get your ex back in your life again.