How To Get Your Boyfriend Back And Finally Be The "Cool" Girlfriend
This happened to me! I honestly don't know why I dealt with it for such a long time, but one day I decided life was too short to stay that way.
I ended the relationship! After a year or so and a few relationships later, I realized it may have been my understanding of relationships and how they should work.
With these strategies, I am going to reveal how we may have still been together.
So, this is actually about how to get your boyfriend back, forever! Would you like to know how to get your boyfriend back? It may have only been misunderstandings! This should show you, there is still hope on learning ways of how to get your boyfriend back, and keep him forever! My current relationship is so much better.
We rarely argue.
But, on the other hand, we don't hide our feelings out of fear of loss or fear of rejection.
Every Saturday mornings we go for coffee and discuss one thing we appreciate about each other plus one thing that is bothering us.
We restrict our discussion to one thing that is bothering us each week.
This allows us to work on one thing each week or accept the difference and live with it.
We feel this is essential to stay connected and open while we try to understand how we are different and how to enjoy our shared differences in life.
We feel it's crucial not to hide things that are bothering either of us.
After we are "listened to", we move toward to a solution or at least a compromise.
This way we feel we come to compromises we can both live with.
Things can be much easier, calmer, and certainly more comfortable, when you are with a person who understands and accepts that there are differences, and is open to free communication without limits.
I think this is one of the best strategies on how to get your boyfriend back because we all want to be heard and understood.
You have heard, "he just doesn't understand me".
Well he also wants to be understood! With this strategy, all of your relationships will be more comfortable.
Finally, you can relax have fun.
If you have lost your boyfriend, and now you want him back, this is a powerful strategy on how to get your boyfriend back.
So, if you want a man of quality, or you want to get your boyfriend back, try being the "COOL" girlfriend who is lots of fun and open to free unhindered communication.
If you have lost your boyfriend let him be free.
If he calls you after a few weeks and misses you, then sit down with him and discuss the now and the future.
By the way, if you don't call him, most likely he will miss you even more.
The chances of him calling and chasing you are significantly increased.
Then, you will be his prize.
Discuss differences with understanding.
Discuss the new communication strategies.
This way you can get your boyfriend back forever!