Do you sense that there is something not right about your marriage and you have an uncanny feeling that it may be headed for a divorce? You wish you could do something about it but you do not know where to start? There are arguments and disagreements all over even if you are still in love.
Before it slide any further maybe its time to put romance back into your life.
As marriages develop, things change between a couple.
The first thing to go out of the window, usually, is romance.
Other things become more important like finance or the needs of the children.
What linger in the background is the need for love and affection.
When one ignores these needs, the bond between the couple may become stretched and may even break.
Moreover, if one of you are trying to keep the romance alive while another sees other things as more important, resentment could build up.
And resentment put a lot of burden on the marriage.
So what are some ways that you can put a little romance back into your marriage before it is too late? When you have children, most of your time will be spend to fulfill their needs and wants.
Time seems to fly by that your rarely notice that there isn't any time left for yourselves.
One of the things you could do to keep the romance alive in your marriage is to hire a baby sitter.
Another option is to have the kids spend time with their grandma and grandpa, maybe once a month or at least once every two months.
Just by going out for dinner between the two of you can freshen up your relationship.
You can also do little things to show your affection to your partner.
How about writing them little love notes where they can find it during the day.
Small chits of "I Love Yous" hidden in a wallet or a dressing table would go a long way.
Believe it or not these little things do make a huge difference and would make your partner feel loved.
Yet another simple thing you could do is take a stroll in the park together.
This allows you to put your responsibilities of bills and dishes behind for awhile.
When you spend time with someone, it also demonstrates that he or she is important to you.
Also, make sure you do not overlook your partner's needs.
It could be that romance may not be something that's important to you at the moment but it could be important for your partner.
Have an open mind for the suggestions that come from your spouse.
A relationship will quickly go down the drain if one partner cannot make time for another.
Every one of us are busy in our daily chores.
But little things do make a huge difference.
Its important to set aside time for your partner even if to hold on to kiss just a little longer.
If you hope that someday you will have time for your partner that someday may never come.
Before its too late and things get out of hand, start now, start today to put romance back into your life.