Are you wondering if your boyfriend has lost interest in you? Have you been seeing each other for a while, but all of a sudden things don't quite feel the same? Are you curious if he's ready to end the relationship, or worse, if there's another woman in his life? Men can be cryptic creatures that are difficult to understand.
They often don't express their wants and needs directly and leave it up to us women to figure out what they're hoping for.
If you're concerned about the state and future of your relationship, read on for a few hints that will help you figure out whether or not your relationship is in danger.
Is He Picking Up the Phone? A man who wants to see you again will not hesitate to contact you.
If he enjoys your company and wants to spend more time in it, he will call or text message you.
More importantly, he will answer your calls and text messages.
Does he answer when you call him? Or does it take him days to respond to texts, e-mails or voicemails? You can rationalize his lack of communication by telling yourself that he may just be busy, but the truth is that a man who is invested in his relationship will put his woman first whenever possible.
If your relationship is going to survive, you need to be in regular contact with one another.
If he is not willing to do this, he may be looking for a way out.
When Is the Last Time You Saw Each Other? Even if he is answering his phone and keeping in touch regularly, there is another concern.
He might be willing to send messages back and forth via phone or e-mail, he may even spend significant time on the phone with you.
However, even if this is the case, if he refuses to see you in person or spend any time with you in public, there is a good chance he is seeing (or at least interested in) someone else.
He may have his reasons and may offer you a dozen different excuses, but be smart about the situation.
If something seems wrong and you're not seeing your guy on a regular basis, is it worth it to continue what may be a charade? Is Your Sex Life What It Was? The males of our species are very, very sexual beings.
If his interest in you in the bedroom has died down significantly, it may be time to take a second look at your relationship.
Further, if he's stopped being physically affectionate in other ways it can be a concern as well.
Is he still holding your hand during the movie? Does he still kiss you goodnight? If not, it could be that his feelings for you have faded.
It can be hard to recognize any of these problems, because we often blame ourselves for elements of our relationship that are not perfect.
The truth is that not every relationship is meant to last, and it is better to get out of an unhealthy one before one or both parties end up more hurt than necessary.
They often don't express their wants and needs directly and leave it up to us women to figure out what they're hoping for.
If you're concerned about the state and future of your relationship, read on for a few hints that will help you figure out whether or not your relationship is in danger.
Is He Picking Up the Phone? A man who wants to see you again will not hesitate to contact you.
If he enjoys your company and wants to spend more time in it, he will call or text message you.
More importantly, he will answer your calls and text messages.
Does he answer when you call him? Or does it take him days to respond to texts, e-mails or voicemails? You can rationalize his lack of communication by telling yourself that he may just be busy, but the truth is that a man who is invested in his relationship will put his woman first whenever possible.
If your relationship is going to survive, you need to be in regular contact with one another.
If he is not willing to do this, he may be looking for a way out.
When Is the Last Time You Saw Each Other? Even if he is answering his phone and keeping in touch regularly, there is another concern.
He might be willing to send messages back and forth via phone or e-mail, he may even spend significant time on the phone with you.
However, even if this is the case, if he refuses to see you in person or spend any time with you in public, there is a good chance he is seeing (or at least interested in) someone else.
He may have his reasons and may offer you a dozen different excuses, but be smart about the situation.
If something seems wrong and you're not seeing your guy on a regular basis, is it worth it to continue what may be a charade? Is Your Sex Life What It Was? The males of our species are very, very sexual beings.
If his interest in you in the bedroom has died down significantly, it may be time to take a second look at your relationship.
Further, if he's stopped being physically affectionate in other ways it can be a concern as well.
Is he still holding your hand during the movie? Does he still kiss you goodnight? If not, it could be that his feelings for you have faded.
It can be hard to recognize any of these problems, because we often blame ourselves for elements of our relationship that are not perfect.
The truth is that not every relationship is meant to last, and it is better to get out of an unhealthy one before one or both parties end up more hurt than necessary.