There are thousands of little bits and pieces that tie together to make a marriage what it is.
Missteps in one or many of these items can cause friction.
One of the biggest, if not the biggest, issues in a marriage is the sexual aspect.
Despite sex being one of the most natural and easiest ways to express our love for each other, it often becomes a complicated tangle of miscommunication, misconception, and misinformation.
A great way to overcome roadblocks, hurt feelings, and fighting due to sexual issues is to keep the lines of communication open between you and your partner.
Part of this communication that the two of you can share is education.
When a husband and wife are on the same page, barriers are dissolved and a mutually satisfying love life is there to be shared and enjoyed.
Become an expert on your spouse's body.
Have him or her show you what pleases them.
There is nothing wrong with this, in fact it's wrong to guess and hope for the best.
There are literally thousands of books on the subject of how to please a man or how to please a woman.
Study up and practice! That is the fun part.
Sometimes all that is needed is variety.
If you find you and your spouse's love life is getting dull and perhaps mechanical, seek out new positions, try some role play games.
Sometimes an adult movie may lead you in directions you may never dared to try before.
If you have a secret fantasy, let your partner know; chances are they aren't mind readers.
Always remember to have fun, but keep it safe.
Human sexuality is a wonderful gift we all have been given.
To be able to share it with your husband or wife is one of life's great treasures.