Are you tired of feeling like a helpless passenger constantly led off-course on the road to love? Do you wish you could win your ex back, but feel lost without a GPS to their heart? This simple guide will get you back in the driver's seat and in control of your love life.
1.
Brakes When a relationship ends, it can often be unsettling.
Breakups can make you feel lonely, depressed or even desperate to win your ex back.
Instead of wallowing in self-pity, put on the brakes.
The time apart can help you sort through your feelings and the relationship to figure out how they can be salvaged, or if you still want the relationship to be salvaged.
The bottom line is, a little time apart can never hurt your relationship and it may even bring you and your ex together more quickly.
2.
Cruise Control Using cruise control may help conserve fuel, but it's also a great philosophy to adopt if you want to get your ex back.
Don't act anxious or strange when you run into one another.
Don't expend unneeded energy on their behalf.
A fall from grace can be the wake up call your ex needs to recognize how lucky they were when you were in their life.
3.
Paint Job Sometimes a severely damaged car needs a paint job and other times it's for vanity.
Breakups can be devastating making you want to restock your wardrobe with sweat-pants and sneakers but resist the urge.
Something as simple as walking or exercising 3 times a weeks, eating healthier foods, or getting a haircut or makeover can be enough to help build your confidence.
Confidence looks good on everyone! 4.
Airbags Airbags are quickly filled with air to save your life.
Lungs can do the same thing to save your relationship.
Don't allow people to pity you or spread rumors of how distraught you are without your ex.
Check out new restaurants.
Go on dates.
Read books you never got around to reading.
If people are constantly talking about how happy you are without your ex, eventually your ex will find out and start trying to win YOU back.