The acute emotions that come with the ending of a serious relationship can be extremely painful.
It's not easy to deal with them.
But there are some tricks of the mind that you can play that can help you to win your lover back quicker than you ever imagined was possible.
When a break-up happens it is tempting to speak ill of your ex, but resist this urge.
Talking about your ex without malice can help to win them back.
So instead of insisting it was all their fault, say that you miss them to their friends or you can say how wonderful a relationship it was.
You have to avoid seeming to be clingy, but by endearing your ex's friends to you, it can play a key role in winning back your ex's affections.
How can this work? Well, by seeming understanding, patient, gentle and calm, their friends may come to the conclusion that ending the relationship was a terrible decision.
Be honest, doesn't your friend's opinion influence your decisions? Be respectful and understanding with your ex's family.
This tactic could be the crucial one in the race to win your lover back, since they are also a huge influence when it comes to advice and decisions.
If your ex and their family are close, then keeping on good terms with them will be a major brownie point! But of course before you do any of this, your must address the core issue first.
Is getting your ex back really what you want? If the answer is yes, then a series of simple steps can help you to achieve that, and in fact are proven to do so.
Rest assured, if winning your lover back is what you want then you will do so.