You and your lover have broken up and things just could not get any worse right? - Wrong! After a brief stint of you two at least trying to work things out, he or she will not even talk to you anymore.
Now you are missing them more than ever.
So what is the secret to getting him or her talking to you again? I am going to tell you.
Stop communication! While this may hurt you and seem like the opposite of what you should be doing, you need to resist the temptation.
Your ex is sending the signal that they need some time and space to work through things alone, and you need to do the same.
Take some time to think of what might have gone wrong in the relationship, and what you could do to change it.
Your ex will appreciate that you have been mature and respected their wishes, and this will help to re-establish your relationship later.
Work on yourself! While sorting through your thoughts take some time to focus on just you for a change.
Find out what your good qualities are and try to embody them the most.
Get a new hobby or start going to the gym.
Exercise is a great time to clear your mind and think.
Take advantage of this.
Not only will you feel better physically and emotionally, but you will also build back your self-confidence.
Keeping yourself busy and away from your ex is a great way to make them miss you.
They will seek you out and find that you have been using your time wisely, and are an improved version of your former self.
You should not be surprised when your phone starts ringing again and it is your ex wanting to talk.
He or she may even want to get back together!