How to Spice Up a an Abstinent Relationship
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Connect with each other on a deep level.Photos.com/Photos.com/Getty Images
Connect with your partner by sharing intimate conversations with him. Share your desires with him, including ideal plans for your life and for you as a couple. These dreams could be things you have never revealed to anyone before. This will move you closer as a couple and add excitement as you reveal your innermost secrets to each other. - 2
Play games together, and remember how fun you are as a couple.Stockbyte/Stockbyte/Getty Images
Play together. This will keep enjoyment in your relationship and help you to realize how fun you are together. If you are athletic, play sports such as basketball or golf. Go canoeing or play Frisbee. Play board games or card games that are fun and exciting. Have a water gun fight during the summer. The key is to keep an element of playfulness in your relationship. - 3). Pamper your partner in a special way. Find out what makes her "tick" and let her know how special she is to you. Make her a tasty dinner, or show up at her work with chocolates. Buy her a gift certificate for a massage or a manicure.
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Learn together and grow as a couple.Creatas/Creatas/Getty Images
Take a class as a couple. This could be a cooking class or an art class or even a dance class. Find out what interests you both and keep learning together. Growing as both an individual and as a couple is important in keeping the spark kindled. - 5). Reminisce about old times together when you were first a couple. Look through a photo album of pictures that were taken early in your relationship. Remind yourselves of funny stories about your first date or beginning romantic moments. For a fun time, recreate your first date, even wearing the same clothes, if possible.