While this is not popular knowledge (surprising but true - for some crazy reason it is not), the fact still remains that all marriages have period where intimacy ebbs and when the tides of passion are at an all-time low.
This is not where the issue is most times.
The problem begins when there is no communication between both parties during these "dry spells".
Sometimes the couple will leave this issue "undiscussed" for months at a time which will then build a wall between them physically and put a strain on their relationship.
At times even the root cause of the eventual problem is often difficult to trace back to the period when there was a "dry spell" passion-wise.
If you are going through the same thing and you continue to not discuss it with your spouse, you will eventually open your marriage to potential, irreparable damage - and trust me, you do not want to do that.
The truth is this; you and your spouse are most likely suffering from ignorance, odd and / or misguided sexual expectations or varying levels of satisfaction as the case may be.
Unfortunately since you are not communicating openly with one another, you may find it really difficult to get to the bottom of it.
This article aims to show you what steps to take to deal with whatever sexual problems you might be experiencing right now.
Read on...
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Playing the Blame Game Is A No - No! You need to understand that you cannot afford to play the blame casting game.
Whether you think or believe that the cause of your lack of passion is your fault or that of your spouse should be shelved right now.
Focus on the big picture which is: This is a "Couple" problem.
That means that the problem must be tackled by both of you.
To arrive at a solution, you will need to work as a team.
You will need to look at each other as partners (which is what you already are, I hope) before you can hope to get to the bottom of the matter.
2.
Sugar Coating Is A No - No! Once you have both agreed to be a unit in solving this issue, you then need to agree to remove every form of sugar coating - you are not making chocolates here.
This is no time to beat about the bushes.
Sincerity and honesty is required and you need to be yourself at all times.
It is time now to discuss what you think might be the issues - what you think might be your concerns.
Be honest - do not cast any blames or point any fingers.
You may be surprised that you are simply suffering from a lack of communication.
Do not be surprised if at this stage you and your partner actually regain your lost passion! 3.
Refusing Assistance Is A No - No! Once you and your spouse have discovered what the root cause is or maybe, you need to come to terms with the fact that you may need to get some great resources to help you return to a comfortable level of intimacy.
Whether the problem is medical, physical, psychological or spiritual, there are fantastic resources out there that can help you deal with sexual problems in marriage.