Many women believe that staying close to their ex after a breakup is the surefire way to get them back.
Many of them think that staying in touch with their ex is a way to re-establish that bond.
In fact, this is often times not the case.
While it is good to be on friendly terms, it's not always the way to get them back.
If you are still as close as before, it's like you never split up in the first place.
That means he doesn't have a chance to wonder why he dumped you.
Stay away and give him some space.
There are two phrases to remember, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" and "You never know what you have until it's gone.
" These are so true when it comes to relationships.
If you have something in your life on a constant basis, you don't have the time to miss them so while you love the person, you can take him for granted.
If he is "forced" to be without you for some time, then he may realize how much he needed and wanted you after all.
How he reacts will determine how easy it will be to get him back.
If he does really want you, it will be much easier to work with.
If not, you have your work ahead of you.
From that, devise a plan.
Is it likely he'll remember what he is missing? Chances are he will.
He'll be more appreciative of you and will want to talk about reconciliation.
There's a possibility he'll come to you before you come to him.
If not, there are still ways to get them back.
Just have a little time and patience.