If you're wondering how to convince your ex to get back with you, I may have the tricks and tips you need.
If you recently broke up with your ex or even if it's been awhile, you may be missing them and wishing there was just some way you could convince your ex to get back with you.
You may be wishing you knew what to say or what to do to bring them back into your arms again.
You could be spending every second of every day trying to come up with the right words, the right solution to get them to fall back in love with you.
The first thing you want to do to convince your ex to get back with you is to give them some space.
I know this is hard to do but if you don't give them any space they are not going to have time to miss you.
If you are calling your ex constantly, pleading for them to return your calls, stop it.
This almost never works.
Don't call them saying it's an emergency either.
What you want to do to get them to call you back is to create a wave of curiosity.
Humans are curious by nature.
If you get their curiosity up, then they will certainly call you to put their curiosity to rest.
One way to get them to call is to leave a message saying how much you appreciate something they have done for you.
Tell them you want to thank them in person.
Don't tell them what it is they did, this way they will be curious as to what you are talking about and want to return your call to find out.
Make sure before you call that you come up with something they may have done that you appreciate.
Another way to get them to call is to say you have something exciting to tell them.
Tell them you don't want to tell them over the phone, that it is too important.
Start to say what it is and then say "No, I shouldn't even tell you, never mind" and hang up.
Then call back saying "No, this is too exciting, your never going to believe this.
" Whichever way you choose, do not call right away.
You need to give it some time.
It may be difficult but if you want to get your ex to get back with you, you have to wait.
Work on your independence.
People are more likely to go after those who are independent.
Do you have a job? Money of your own? Your own place? A car? It isn't necessary to have all of these things but they will make the opposite sex(or the same sex if you prefer) more into you.
If your working to improve your life, to make it better, then your ex may think you are moving on without them and this may cause them to want you back.
You may be thinking, how is that possible? How will moving on cause my ex to get back with me? What it comes down to is that most of us want what we can't have.
If you act like you don't need them to be happy, chances are they are going to want you back.
This is especially true if you play your cards right.
Have a step by step plan.
For example: 1.
Work on independence.
If you don't have a job, work on getting one.
If you do have a job, work on getting a better one or getting a promotion.
If you enjoy your job, work on other areas of your life that may need a little fine tuning.
2.
Find something that will make you happy besides your ex.
Most people don't enjoy being with others that are sad or depressed.
When your happy, that makes them happy.
So find a hobby or something you enjoy doing that will make you happy.
3.
Come up with something to get them curious enough to see you again.
Once you are happy with yourself and are working to improve your own life, then come up with something that will get his or her curiosity up enough to see you again.
4.
Meet at a place where there are activities for you to do while talking to your ex, like a bowling ally or mini golf course.
This way you can have fun together and they may wonder why they left you in the first place.
Don't be too clingy, give them room to breathe.
Act like you are happy with your life and tell them you would love to be friends.
This gets your foot in the door so you will have an excuse to see them again.
These are just a few ways to get your ex to get back with you.
Show your ex that you are your own person and that you can be just fine without them.
But don't go overboard.
You don't want them to move on without you.
If you recently broke up with your ex or even if it's been awhile, you may be missing them and wishing there was just some way you could convince your ex to get back with you.
You may be wishing you knew what to say or what to do to bring them back into your arms again.
You could be spending every second of every day trying to come up with the right words, the right solution to get them to fall back in love with you.
The first thing you want to do to convince your ex to get back with you is to give them some space.
I know this is hard to do but if you don't give them any space they are not going to have time to miss you.
If you are calling your ex constantly, pleading for them to return your calls, stop it.
This almost never works.
Don't call them saying it's an emergency either.
What you want to do to get them to call you back is to create a wave of curiosity.
Humans are curious by nature.
If you get their curiosity up, then they will certainly call you to put their curiosity to rest.
One way to get them to call is to leave a message saying how much you appreciate something they have done for you.
Tell them you want to thank them in person.
Don't tell them what it is they did, this way they will be curious as to what you are talking about and want to return your call to find out.
Make sure before you call that you come up with something they may have done that you appreciate.
Another way to get them to call is to say you have something exciting to tell them.
Tell them you don't want to tell them over the phone, that it is too important.
Start to say what it is and then say "No, I shouldn't even tell you, never mind" and hang up.
Then call back saying "No, this is too exciting, your never going to believe this.
" Whichever way you choose, do not call right away.
You need to give it some time.
It may be difficult but if you want to get your ex to get back with you, you have to wait.
Work on your independence.
People are more likely to go after those who are independent.
Do you have a job? Money of your own? Your own place? A car? It isn't necessary to have all of these things but they will make the opposite sex(or the same sex if you prefer) more into you.
If your working to improve your life, to make it better, then your ex may think you are moving on without them and this may cause them to want you back.
You may be thinking, how is that possible? How will moving on cause my ex to get back with me? What it comes down to is that most of us want what we can't have.
If you act like you don't need them to be happy, chances are they are going to want you back.
This is especially true if you play your cards right.
Have a step by step plan.
For example: 1.
Work on independence.
If you don't have a job, work on getting one.
If you do have a job, work on getting a better one or getting a promotion.
If you enjoy your job, work on other areas of your life that may need a little fine tuning.
2.
Find something that will make you happy besides your ex.
Most people don't enjoy being with others that are sad or depressed.
When your happy, that makes them happy.
So find a hobby or something you enjoy doing that will make you happy.
3.
Come up with something to get them curious enough to see you again.
Once you are happy with yourself and are working to improve your own life, then come up with something that will get his or her curiosity up enough to see you again.
4.
Meet at a place where there are activities for you to do while talking to your ex, like a bowling ally or mini golf course.
This way you can have fun together and they may wonder why they left you in the first place.
Don't be too clingy, give them room to breathe.
Act like you are happy with your life and tell them you would love to be friends.
This gets your foot in the door so you will have an excuse to see them again.
These are just a few ways to get your ex to get back with you.
Show your ex that you are your own person and that you can be just fine without them.
But don't go overboard.
You don't want them to move on without you.