Women know that men are sometimes quite the mystery.
They say and do things that we just can't understand, try as we might.
It's difficult enough trying to make a relationship work but when you feel that you're wading through a river of confusion, it's even more challenging.
You may feel exactly like this if the man you are with suddenly seems distant and less interested in you than he once was.
If your boyfriend needs a break what exactly does this mean for the future of your relationship and is there anything you can do to keep him from leaving permanently? When we as women are faced with an emotional situation our natural instinct is to absorb it in a way that is easiest for us.
This is what typically happens when our boyfriend needs a break.
We try and explain it to ourselves as him feeling too much too soon or him needing a bit of space because he feels overwhelmed by his emotions.
Neither of those is really what is going on in the heart or mind of a man who needs distance.
When a man tells you that he needs a break it's the same as a break up.
He wants to be apart from you.
Whenever a man is in love he can't get enough of that woman.
Men who are completely in love aren't questioning that love and they don't need breaks.
So what's the best thing you can possibly do if your boyfriend needs a break? You can accept it and even embrace it.
You are naturally going to feel rejected and hurt and that's what leads to women begging, crying and pleading with their exes for another chance.
You need to take the highroad if you want to get him back.
You have to be mature and understanding about what he needs.
Accept the break and tell him that you'll also take the time to think through what you want.
He won't see that coming and it will nag at him much more than any tears or begging will.