What's the worst fear of women who are in a relationship?

Infidelity!

Infidelity is a major factor in divorce and separation and it's the most common fear of women that are in relationship.

So preventing cheating can in most cases promise you a successful relationship and marriage.

Is it a dream?

Preventing your husband from cheating on you is not a dream, it can become true! Read this article and follow the instructions. We promise you, that if you follow this article your boyfriend or husband will never cheat on you!

In other to learn how to prevent your husband from cheating, you got to first understand why men cheat:

The reasons we will list why men cheat is based on the new study, conducted by marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman.

Here are the 6 major reasons and facts about cheating men:

Read the reasons and facts carefully! Make sure you understand them well. Understating the reasons is the basic condition to help you prevent cheating!

1. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the reason for cheating

Here ends the myth that men cheat for sex: Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main cause of their betrayal.  "Our culture teaches us that all men are happy when they have sex," says Neuman. "But men are motivated emotionally, not just physically.

They want to feel that their wives appreciate them, and they want them to understand that they work hard and find it lots of times difficult to get things done".

The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so women do not always know when they need encouragement.
Most men think it unmanly to demand 'pat on the back, so they often ignore their emotional needs.

2. 66% of men reported that they felt guilty for cheating

The implications are a little scary: It's not just that certain type of men cheat. In fact, 68% of men never thought they would see the day they are not loyal and almost all of them have regretted their betrayal.  Feelings of guilt are not sufficient to stop a man from cheating.

Men are good in separation emotions; they can keep their emotions and deal with them later.
So even if your husband swore to you that he would never cheat, do not assume it can't happen.
 

3. 77% of men who cheated said that they had a good friend who cheated too

To be around friends who have cheated in the past becomes more normal to cheat and actually creates a sense of legitimacy in that respect.  The message that men say to themselves is: My friend is a good guy and he cheats on his wife, so I suppose that the best guys do it, so I can too.

Women can't simply prohibit their husband from hanging out around certain men, but they can ask them to spend their time in an environment that offers less temptations, for example a football game or a restaurant, instead of a bar or club.

Another strategy, and very recommended strategy: building a social circle around happily married couples. Good values around you will help create a supportive environment for your marriage.

4. 40% of men cheated with a woman from work

It's often that the women who men cheat with praise them, shower them with compliments on their performance and efforts.  This indicates another critical reason that men need to feel valued at home.

Fortunately, there is a clear warning sign when men spent too much time with a woman at work: if they praise or mention the name of the worker often, your attention should be lit and this is the time for you to set limits and talk openly.

Women should ask their husband question like: whether it's acceptable that he and the lady coworker stay late alone? Are they allowed to go along with the lady coworker to conferences? Why they eat outside? Ask the same questions also about the male coworkers, so you can see whether they treat the men coworker as they treat the lady coworker.

It is important that couples spend time together and share their hobbies.

5. Only 12% of men say their lover was more physically attractive than their wife.

In other words, men don't cheat because they think they will get better sex.  In most cases, men cheat to fill an emotional dissatisfaction. They feel an emotional connection with the other woman, and sex only helps to develop the relationship.

If you are afraid of infidelity, you should focus on your relationship, love more and be connected, not only physically but through good communication and close relationship.

It is also important to have sex; men interpret sex as a sign that their wives love them.

6. Only 6% of men had sex with a woman who they met the same day or night. 

In fact, 73% of the men who cheated met the other woman for over a month before they cheated.  This means that there might be time to see signs before infidelity occur.

Keep an eye on common signals such as: Men spend more time outdoors, stop initiating sex, arguing more often or rather avoid conversations.

Conclusion: The 12 steps how to make sure your husband will never cheat and will never have any reason to cheat:

1. Show your husband that you appreciate him, and show him that you understand that he works hard and find it lots of times difficult to get things done.
2. Build a social circle around happily married couples.
3. Ask him to spend his time in an environment that offers less temptations, for example a football game or a restaurant, instead of a bar or club.
4. If you notice that he spends too much time with a woman at work: if he praise or mention the name of the worker often, your attention should be lit and this is the time for you to set limits and talk openly. You should ask your husband question like: whether it's acceptable that he and the lady coworker stay late alone? Are they allowed to go along with the lady coworker to conferences? Why they eat outside? Ask the same questions also about the male coworkers, so you can see whether they treat the men coworker as they treat the lady coworker.
5. Spend time together and share your hobbies.
6. Focus on your relationship, love more and be connected, not only by physical but through good communication and close relationships.
7. It is also important to have sex; men interpret sex as a sign that their wives love them.
8. Keep an eye on common signals such as: Men spend more time outdoors, stop initiating sex, arguing more often or rather avoid conversations.
9. Be open, and open about your relationship, talk about what happens between you and absolutely not to mention third party. You could say a sentence like: "I think we started to lose something important in our marriage, I do not want to give it away" and thus like that start the conversation topic.
10. It is important to devote time to your relationship, keep your eyes and do what it takes to keep it.
11. You must take responsibility for things that you can control them as your behavior and try to lead your marriage to a better place.
12. Do not hesitate to express your respect to him, spend time together, and initiate more sex with him.

Good luck in implementing what you just read! We are now sure that after reading this article, you have much more chances for a successful relationship! Good luck!

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