Breakups often happen suddenly and this unexpected turmoil can leave you wondering just how to get back love and sadly the answers don't often come easily when you aren't exactly thinking straight.
The good news is that very often it is possible to get back together and have another go at making it succeed.
There are some well tried and tested methods that have a proven success rate at reuniting couples after they have split up, even over what seemed as serious issues.
Getting back with your ex doesn't start with attributing blame.
The truth is that more often than not both partners are responsible for the relationship and you must realize that you do share some of the blame.
A good move to finally being reunited is to contact your ex and explain to them that you are sorry for the mistakes you have made and tell them you understand the relationship wasn't working.
You don't have to go into a lot of detail and shouldn't try to arrange a meeting or get them to come back.
It's just an apology and then comes a vital step.
Don't contact them again for several weeks at least.
Make sure you don't go to places where you might bump into them and absolutely no phone calls or text messages.
You need to give them some time away from you to sort themselves out and to actually miss you being around.
It's isn't an easy step to take, especially when you are sure you want them to come back again but it is one of the best ways to set the scene for the time when you actually move to get them back again.
First the apology for the part that you played in the breakup (whether you believe it or not) and then the time to let your ex miss you.
The apology will remove a lot of reasons for further argument once you eventually contact them again and try to start your relationship fresh.