Marital strife will sometimes overcome the best of intentions from the best of couples. At times peace and happiness reign in marriges. However sometimes marital problems escalate beyond expectations. When this happens couples sometimes begin the blame game. However to save a marriage it is important to move beyond blame to actual repair. Sometimes instead marriage and problems take the center stage in lives that were once punctuated by wonderful memories. Similar to many aspects of live, marriage and problems can be reworked into success and mutually loving companionship.
Many marriages seemed doomed after one or both partners engage in emotional affairs. Situations become even worse when emotional affairs escalate into actual physical affairs. So when these situations occur, are there any considerations available to save the marriage? While the aggrieved person wonders, " What can I do to save my marriage?" The other person may have already written off the marriage and is ready for a divorce.
At one time or another, one or both marriage partners may consider marriage counseling as an alternative to a breakup. Marital counseling is available in different forms. The most common response to marital problems is when both partners agree to sincerely participate in counseling sessions. However before this occurs you must be aware that the success rate for marriage counseling can be extremely low. As low as fifty percent. There is an alternative.
As in all significant endeavors quite often one person has to take the lead to save their marriage and family.
Quite often this responsibility falls upon the head of the household, the man. Throughout time and across all cultures the man is deemed the head of the household. Protecting, providing, and directing the family unit. Sometimes these things are easily done and sometimes successfully being the head of the household can become a challenge for various reasons.
The predominant reason for failed marriages is the lack of proper leadership.
Men and women are designed for various tasks in life. Religion asserts these facts are spiritually ordained. Science asserts these are biological roles. Ask yourself. "Does it really matter who says what when it comes to saving my marriage?". Proper leadership skills will save your marriage. With effective leadership
( husbands ) you have committed followers ( wives ). Marital leadership is not a new concept. But unfortunately leadership is often discounted and relegated in importance by the marriage counseling industry and changing contemporary value systems.
Seven facts to consider about marriage :
*** Many marriage counselors give conflicting advice shaped by their value systems.
*** Many men treat their wives as dominated property which leads to resentment from their wives.
*** The association between affection, love, and sex is out of balance due to societal influences replacing sincere long term mutual relationship agreements, covenants, and practices.
*** Emotional wounds from a woman's past can grow and fester without her husband being aware.
*** Proper marital leadership provides an emotional safety zone that encourages wives to openly communication with their husbands. This facilitates greater intimacy emotionally and physically.
*** Proper marital leadership encourages sincere intimacy while increasing respect for the husband from his wife.
*** Proper marital leadership provides an anchor where needs are met in the home not outside the home.
One day you wake up and realize; our sex life has changed, my wife is secretive and moody, and she is more argumentative than in the past. These facts can indicate a range of possibilities from stress to her no longer feeling that she loves you!
So if you want to save your marriage and you do not want other people to know any of your business what options do you have?
Many men want to keep their business private and are not comfortable with meeting marital counselors to discuss marital issues. You can seek information from the library or do internet research regarding solving marital issues. Or you can have a discussion with other men about similar issues. However the internet provides the best privacy. Professional help can be obtained in the form of videos or support groups.
The importance of saving your marriage.
*** Statistics show that married men live longer than single men.
*** Your children will be positively affected.
*** Married men are generally healthier.
*** Companionship to support your goals and aspirations particularly during times of trouble or stress.
Always keep in mind that women are programmed by nature and society to seek out, appreciate, and bond with dominant men. Sometimes you need help to learn to display the best leadership characteristics that attract women. Live a quality life with your wife, not without her.
Many marriages seemed doomed after one or both partners engage in emotional affairs. Situations become even worse when emotional affairs escalate into actual physical affairs. So when these situations occur, are there any considerations available to save the marriage? While the aggrieved person wonders, " What can I do to save my marriage?" The other person may have already written off the marriage and is ready for a divorce.
At one time or another, one or both marriage partners may consider marriage counseling as an alternative to a breakup. Marital counseling is available in different forms. The most common response to marital problems is when both partners agree to sincerely participate in counseling sessions. However before this occurs you must be aware that the success rate for marriage counseling can be extremely low. As low as fifty percent. There is an alternative.
As in all significant endeavors quite often one person has to take the lead to save their marriage and family.
Quite often this responsibility falls upon the head of the household, the man. Throughout time and across all cultures the man is deemed the head of the household. Protecting, providing, and directing the family unit. Sometimes these things are easily done and sometimes successfully being the head of the household can become a challenge for various reasons.
The predominant reason for failed marriages is the lack of proper leadership.
Men and women are designed for various tasks in life. Religion asserts these facts are spiritually ordained. Science asserts these are biological roles. Ask yourself. "Does it really matter who says what when it comes to saving my marriage?". Proper leadership skills will save your marriage. With effective leadership
( husbands ) you have committed followers ( wives ). Marital leadership is not a new concept. But unfortunately leadership is often discounted and relegated in importance by the marriage counseling industry and changing contemporary value systems.
Seven facts to consider about marriage :
*** Many marriage counselors give conflicting advice shaped by their value systems.
*** Many men treat their wives as dominated property which leads to resentment from their wives.
*** The association between affection, love, and sex is out of balance due to societal influences replacing sincere long term mutual relationship agreements, covenants, and practices.
*** Emotional wounds from a woman's past can grow and fester without her husband being aware.
*** Proper marital leadership provides an emotional safety zone that encourages wives to openly communication with their husbands. This facilitates greater intimacy emotionally and physically.
*** Proper marital leadership encourages sincere intimacy while increasing respect for the husband from his wife.
*** Proper marital leadership provides an anchor where needs are met in the home not outside the home.
One day you wake up and realize; our sex life has changed, my wife is secretive and moody, and she is more argumentative than in the past. These facts can indicate a range of possibilities from stress to her no longer feeling that she loves you!
So if you want to save your marriage and you do not want other people to know any of your business what options do you have?
Many men want to keep their business private and are not comfortable with meeting marital counselors to discuss marital issues. You can seek information from the library or do internet research regarding solving marital issues. Or you can have a discussion with other men about similar issues. However the internet provides the best privacy. Professional help can be obtained in the form of videos or support groups.
The importance of saving your marriage.
*** Statistics show that married men live longer than single men.
*** Your children will be positively affected.
*** Married men are generally healthier.
*** Companionship to support your goals and aspirations particularly during times of trouble or stress.
Always keep in mind that women are programmed by nature and society to seek out, appreciate, and bond with dominant men. Sometimes you need help to learn to display the best leadership characteristics that attract women. Live a quality life with your wife, not without her.