Guaranteed Ways to Make Your Ex Return Your Calls - Surprisingly Easy Trick Which Works Real Well
If you are having a tough time getting your ex to return your calls in spite of leaving text messages and long rehearsed speeches on his or her voicemail you are definitely using the wrong strategy and barking up the wrong tree.
You will need to be careful and a little cunning to get your ex to return your calls.
Here are three tips that should help you get that all important call...
Emotional blackmail- When you are in a relationship with a person you generally are in a relationship with the person's family too.
So, if you have a family member who shared a good rapport with your ex and whom your ex was genuinely fond of then send a brief text message to your ex informing about that family member and wait for him or her to call.
You may send the message about the family member's health or send an invite on behalf of that family member.
However take that family member in confidence and make him or her part of the conspiracy.
If it's done in good faith no one should complain.
Tell your ex you want him or her to be the first person to hear the good news- Leave a message on your ex's cell phone that you want to share something really important with him or her and you want your ex to be first person to hear it.
This could be about your new car, new house, your promotion at work or the arrears you received at work.
This message will massage your ex's ego and he or she will surely return your call.
However, make sure there is something substantial you want to share.
You may also invent a fictitious increment or an incentive you received at work.
Thank her or him for having played a part- If it is related to your work message him or her that the presentation he or she helped you with was instrumental in you getting rewarded.
If it's about something else message that it would not have been possible without his or her help and support that you got what you wanted.
This will make your ex curious and he or she will want to know more of it in detail.
Take your time and device a well thought out strategy before you do all this and attempt it only when you have backup plans in case this strategy fails.
You will need to be careful and a little cunning to get your ex to return your calls.
Here are three tips that should help you get that all important call...
Emotional blackmail- When you are in a relationship with a person you generally are in a relationship with the person's family too.
So, if you have a family member who shared a good rapport with your ex and whom your ex was genuinely fond of then send a brief text message to your ex informing about that family member and wait for him or her to call.
You may send the message about the family member's health or send an invite on behalf of that family member.
However take that family member in confidence and make him or her part of the conspiracy.
If it's done in good faith no one should complain.
Tell your ex you want him or her to be the first person to hear the good news- Leave a message on your ex's cell phone that you want to share something really important with him or her and you want your ex to be first person to hear it.
This could be about your new car, new house, your promotion at work or the arrears you received at work.
This message will massage your ex's ego and he or she will surely return your call.
However, make sure there is something substantial you want to share.
You may also invent a fictitious increment or an incentive you received at work.
Thank her or him for having played a part- If it is related to your work message him or her that the presentation he or she helped you with was instrumental in you getting rewarded.
If it's about something else message that it would not have been possible without his or her help and support that you got what you wanted.
This will make your ex curious and he or she will want to know more of it in detail.
Take your time and device a well thought out strategy before you do all this and attempt it only when you have backup plans in case this strategy fails.