How to Tell If a Guy is Using You! Here is How to Be Absolutely Certain of it Before It"s Too Late
All relationships are not balanced, some are very unbalanced with one partner using the other by just receiving from the relationship and not giving anything in return.
In some cases, the males tend to be on this side of an unbalanced relationship.
However if you feel that you are being used by your guy friend there are various ways to find out.
Here are a few: Focus on how he behaves and not necessarily what he says - Guys are good at saying one thing but doing another, and this can be confusing especially if you believe that he is always telling you the truth.
So in order to prevent this, only pay close attention to his actions.
Let your friends and family watch the way you both treat each other and then relate this to you - It may just be that you are not able to see that he is using you or taking advantage of you, because of how close you are to him.
Compare how many things you do for him with how many things he does for you.
- Do this by making a list and when you are through, compare the length and width of each listing.
If your list is considerable longer, with more significant items, then it may be that he is using you, or you are allowing yourself to be used.
Does he treat his friends and family better than he treats you - If he does, than it is highly likely that he is using you.
However, it could also be that he is using his family and friends.
If you think that he is using them, more than likely he is doing the same thing with you.
Ask him to do you a special favor - Of course his answer may be dependent on a lot of things, but if he constantly says 'no' when you ask him to do you an important favor, he may be taken advantage of you.
So if he says no the first time, continue to observe and if the pattern continues then I think the answer is quite clear.
How much is he expecting of you - Does he always call and ask for favors expecting you to just drop all you are doing and respond to his call.
If he is always in need and is never concerned about how much of a sacrifice you have to make, it may be that he doesn't care that much about you.
There are many ways to check if your guy is using you, and these are just a few.
However there is one major question you need to ask that may hold the answer - 'Why do you think he is using you in the first place?'
In some cases, the males tend to be on this side of an unbalanced relationship.
However if you feel that you are being used by your guy friend there are various ways to find out.
Here are a few: Focus on how he behaves and not necessarily what he says - Guys are good at saying one thing but doing another, and this can be confusing especially if you believe that he is always telling you the truth.
So in order to prevent this, only pay close attention to his actions.
Let your friends and family watch the way you both treat each other and then relate this to you - It may just be that you are not able to see that he is using you or taking advantage of you, because of how close you are to him.
Compare how many things you do for him with how many things he does for you.
- Do this by making a list and when you are through, compare the length and width of each listing.
If your list is considerable longer, with more significant items, then it may be that he is using you, or you are allowing yourself to be used.
Does he treat his friends and family better than he treats you - If he does, than it is highly likely that he is using you.
However, it could also be that he is using his family and friends.
If you think that he is using them, more than likely he is doing the same thing with you.
Ask him to do you a special favor - Of course his answer may be dependent on a lot of things, but if he constantly says 'no' when you ask him to do you an important favor, he may be taken advantage of you.
So if he says no the first time, continue to observe and if the pattern continues then I think the answer is quite clear.
How much is he expecting of you - Does he always call and ask for favors expecting you to just drop all you are doing and respond to his call.
If he is always in need and is never concerned about how much of a sacrifice you have to make, it may be that he doesn't care that much about you.
There are many ways to check if your guy is using you, and these are just a few.
However there is one major question you need to ask that may hold the answer - 'Why do you think he is using you in the first place?'