If you want to get back with your ex, it's really important you contact them the right way.
You might be asking yourself, should I call my ex? If you choose to call your ex, you want to do it in a way that gives you the best possible chance of getting back with them.
Let's look at two different scenarios.
Kathy has broken up with Tom, realised she made a mistake and desperately wants him back.
She asked herself, should I call my ex? And left a string of messages on his phone like these: "Tom, it's Kathy.
I need to talk to you urgently.
" "Tom, it's Kathy.
I already called you four times today.
We need to talk.
" "Tom, it's me.
I don't know why you're not returning my calls.
I've got to talk to you NOW!" If Tom constantly gets these messages from Kathy, do you think he's going to want to return Kathy's phone call? More likely, he's going to stop checking his messages for a few days, or change his phone number and Kathy's blown her chance of getting back together with him.
But there is a better way of getting your ex to return your phone call.
The complete, powerful strategy is revealed in The Magic Of Making Up.
But I must warn you, if you only use the approach I'm about to show you without a proper plan in place, it could do more harm than if you never called your ex at all.
Please remember this when "should I call my ex" keeps running through your mind.
So when you ask yourself, should I call my ex - what can work is to intrigue your ex enough to want to return your call.
In a friendly manner you could say something like, "Hey Tom, it's Kathy.
I just wanted to tell you how much I value what you did for me.
Please call me back so I can thank you in person.
" Tom will be thinking, "Why is she calling to thank me? I don't even know what I did.
Maybe I should call her to find out.
" Because Kathy's phone call had good vibes, Tom is feeling positive about the phone call.
But before you even make the call to your ex you need to have a believable explanation about what you're thanking them for.
If Tom calls Kathy back and asks her, "Why are you thanking me?" Kathy must be ready with a credible answer that makes sense to Tom.
It's very important to understand that if you do not have a proper plan in place (as detailed in The Magic Of Making Up) before using this method and your ex returns your phone call, you can do more harm than good to your relationship.
So if you haven't read the Magic Of Making Up, please think seriously before you call your ex.
You might be asking yourself, should I call my ex? If you choose to call your ex, you want to do it in a way that gives you the best possible chance of getting back with them.
Let's look at two different scenarios.
Kathy has broken up with Tom, realised she made a mistake and desperately wants him back.
She asked herself, should I call my ex? And left a string of messages on his phone like these: "Tom, it's Kathy.
I need to talk to you urgently.
" "Tom, it's Kathy.
I already called you four times today.
We need to talk.
" "Tom, it's me.
I don't know why you're not returning my calls.
I've got to talk to you NOW!" If Tom constantly gets these messages from Kathy, do you think he's going to want to return Kathy's phone call? More likely, he's going to stop checking his messages for a few days, or change his phone number and Kathy's blown her chance of getting back together with him.
But there is a better way of getting your ex to return your phone call.
The complete, powerful strategy is revealed in The Magic Of Making Up.
But I must warn you, if you only use the approach I'm about to show you without a proper plan in place, it could do more harm than if you never called your ex at all.
Please remember this when "should I call my ex" keeps running through your mind.
So when you ask yourself, should I call my ex - what can work is to intrigue your ex enough to want to return your call.
In a friendly manner you could say something like, "Hey Tom, it's Kathy.
I just wanted to tell you how much I value what you did for me.
Please call me back so I can thank you in person.
" Tom will be thinking, "Why is she calling to thank me? I don't even know what I did.
Maybe I should call her to find out.
" Because Kathy's phone call had good vibes, Tom is feeling positive about the phone call.
But before you even make the call to your ex you need to have a believable explanation about what you're thanking them for.
If Tom calls Kathy back and asks her, "Why are you thanking me?" Kathy must be ready with a credible answer that makes sense to Tom.
It's very important to understand that if you do not have a proper plan in place (as detailed in The Magic Of Making Up) before using this method and your ex returns your phone call, you can do more harm than good to your relationship.
So if you haven't read the Magic Of Making Up, please think seriously before you call your ex.