If you're dreaming about getting your ex back it is very likely that your ex is ignoring you.
There are ways you can get them to talk, though, even if they are still mad.
They may just want you to get the message that they are still upset over what happened.
If your ex is ignoring you, and you are ready to talk to them, here are some things you can do.
Leave your ex a voice mail, or even better, send a text that says thank you and that you would like it if you could get together to explain what you mean.
Your ex will wonder what it was that he or she did.
There must be some small thing, some gesture that you can think of that deserves thanks.
So when they do meet up with you, you have an opportunity to show you are a great person.
Control your emotions and show that you are kind, pleasant, and calm.
Do not lose sight of the goal of getting your ex back! Another way to get their attention is to set a time and date to give each other back your belongings.
Again, use every opportunity that you have to speak wisely and to your greatest advantage in your attempts toward getting your ex back.
You must be sweet, giving and understanding.
It cannot be apparent that you are making up excuses to meet.
It must look simply like you are making the final break, as if you are "dotting the i's and crossing the t's," so to speak.
If your ex is ignoring you after your break up, they probably need time and space.
Give them the distance they need but find ways to encourage a little contact.
With the space they may realize what they miss about you.
But the occasional "necessary" contact will serve to keep your presence felt and to let them know you're still there.