Absolute honesty is the best marriage insurance policy.
Hiding things from each other lays a foundation of destruction for your marriage.
Honesty and openness create security.
Security is very important to a woman: "knowing that someone is committed to me, and that person for life, in both good and bad times.
Insecurity comes from dishonesty and lack of openness.
Your wife needs to feel she can trust you, have confidence, faith and can vouch for your conduct.
The more unsecured a wife feels in the marriage, the more the problem you will have as a husband.
However, everyone's marriage goes through stressful periods- security is very important during such times of stress.
A wife must feel her husband is giving her accurate information about everything: past, present and future.
She uses what you tell her as building blocks to plan the future.
Don't say "it doesn't make any difference to me", when it does.
When wife asks, tell her the truth, gently with love.
Husbands are less than honest for three reasons: •Chronic liar.
Has always done it since childhood, get divine counselling and deliverance's.
•To hide weaknesses and mistakes.
Tells little white lies to cover up.
Stop it, the best route is always the truth.
•To protect his wife from the truth.
He doesn't feel she can handle certain information.
She can! Don't lie about her new hair style, her appearance, etc.
She wants to please you and needs to know your true opinion.
Your spouse has the right to your innermost thoughts.
Privacy has no place between a husband and his wife.
The more secrets you have, the more chance of problems when she finds out the truth.
If you are secretive, you undermine your wife's feelings and security.
When a woman can trust you, she is able to love you more fully.
Here are some suggestions for developing honesty and openness.
1.
Tell your wife what makes you happy and what makes you upset, including job frustrations and things that are not family related.
2.
Don't hide thongs from her, even if they are unpleasant (find a pleasant way to say unpleasant things).
She is your help-meet.
She wants to be involved in every part of your life.
3.
Share your fears.
It will not make you look weak.
When you are open and transparent, your wife will have a lot more respect, love, and trust for you.
Hiding things from each other lays a foundation of destruction for your marriage.
Honesty and openness create security.
Security is very important to a woman: "knowing that someone is committed to me, and that person for life, in both good and bad times.
Insecurity comes from dishonesty and lack of openness.
Your wife needs to feel she can trust you, have confidence, faith and can vouch for your conduct.
The more unsecured a wife feels in the marriage, the more the problem you will have as a husband.
However, everyone's marriage goes through stressful periods- security is very important during such times of stress.
A wife must feel her husband is giving her accurate information about everything: past, present and future.
She uses what you tell her as building blocks to plan the future.
Don't say "it doesn't make any difference to me", when it does.
When wife asks, tell her the truth, gently with love.
Husbands are less than honest for three reasons: •Chronic liar.
Has always done it since childhood, get divine counselling and deliverance's.
•To hide weaknesses and mistakes.
Tells little white lies to cover up.
Stop it, the best route is always the truth.
•To protect his wife from the truth.
He doesn't feel she can handle certain information.
She can! Don't lie about her new hair style, her appearance, etc.
She wants to please you and needs to know your true opinion.
Your spouse has the right to your innermost thoughts.
Privacy has no place between a husband and his wife.
The more secrets you have, the more chance of problems when she finds out the truth.
If you are secretive, you undermine your wife's feelings and security.
When a woman can trust you, she is able to love you more fully.
Here are some suggestions for developing honesty and openness.
1.
Tell your wife what makes you happy and what makes you upset, including job frustrations and things that are not family related.
2.
Don't hide thongs from her, even if they are unpleasant (find a pleasant way to say unpleasant things).
She is your help-meet.
She wants to be involved in every part of your life.
3.
Share your fears.
It will not make you look weak.
When you are open and transparent, your wife will have a lot more respect, love, and trust for you.