Keeping up with relationships are tough, but keeping up with breakups are tougher.
You're left with hollow feelings of sorrow that make your heart sink, and feelings of anger that flare you up.
But deep inside you want your ex back, and although it seems difficult.
It comes in an easy package of 4 steps.
1.
Vengeance or love? Let's be honest, often people want to get back with their exes just so that they can break up again, lifting them up and dropping them off harder.
If this is the case with you then stop right there.
That is just plain wicked.
Read on only if you want to get back with you ex for the love that still lingers on in your heart.
2.
Be yourself Don't make the common mistake of bursting into tears over and over again or making midnight phone calls pleading your ex to take you back.
Instead, accept their decision, tell them you respect it, and move on with your life.
Be yourself, start new hobbies, hang out with friends, and have some fun.
Show character and remind your ex of the person you really are, the personality they adored.
3.
Admit and apologize Don't be adhere to the stubborn attitude of "I'm right, you're wrong".
Remember that it takes two to start a fight, not just one.
So admit your part of the mistakes, and sincerely apologize for them.
Your ex will be surprised, and appreciate your honesty.
4.
Live your life like never before! Get out there and have some fun! Prove to your ex that they aren't the cause of your existence.
Although you preferred them, you can keep alive and have fun without them.
Be a complete person with a balance.
By now , your ex will be touched that you said sorry, and be impressed with the way you're moving on, eventually wanting you back desperately.