Now that you've broken up, your mind must be racing to think of some good ways to mend the tiff and get your ex back.
But before you get into your actions let me familiarize you with some of the most common mistakes that people make in such a state of mind, that in turn hurt their ex and once again make the situation turn topsy-turvy.
No addictions- In a state of depression, do not get addicted to drugs or alcohols.
Never has it been, nor will it ever be the best way to deal with break up traumas.
Rather, it'll indulge you in acting in more stupid ways like harassing your ex in the public, or calling him/ her up in the midnight, and falling on their knees and pleading to come back.
This is the drunken dialing phase, and had you been the victim of this any time back, you'll know perfectly well why it is advisable to stay away from toxics during times of emotional swings.
Don't be desperate- Yes I know how much you love and feel for your ex, but don't be desperate to show it off just after a break-up.
Now you may be wondering whether your ex too feels the same way for you as you do for him/ her, or if your parted partner is still thinking about you and your whereabouts.
Chances are fair, provided you give them the required time and space to do some brain work.
Be a happy man, go out with your friends, spend time with your family and when it comes to dealing your ex, be dignified and be sure to respect his/ her decisions and thoughts.
Pursuing without planning- Pursuing your ex without a proper planning is one of the worst mistakes made by many.
Second time relationship is worth trying and are known to pay off well.
So make no blunders, make your move as per your plans; and if you cannot think of some fool-proof methods try and consult the same with your friends and colleagues or even better, seek a professional help.
Play strategically and not impulsively.