So your ex broke up with you and you were hit like a ton of bricks with the news.
You probably asked repeatedly why and begged for another chance.
You probably said you would change and things would be different.
What your ex didn't tell you that you probably know deep down but refuse to admit, is that your ex has met someone else that has brought a breath of fresh air into what they feel like has been a slow moving, stagnant point in their life.
Don't despair, there is still hope if you listen carefully and pay close attention to sound advice.
Chances are that your ex still cares for you, and you most likely are not the only reason why they want to break up with you.
When you have been doing the same thing for so long you tend to get comfortable, and this is never a good thing in any relationship.
Everyone has fantasies and regrets about things they never accomplished in life.
You ex probably has been feeling as though their life isn't going anywhere and has discovered something or someone that has given them hope in making some forward progress.
What you need to do is accept this and start a game plan to win your ex back.
You tried the begging and pleading and it didn't work, so now you have to think about things differently.
You have lost your ex and you need to accept this first.
However, if you do things right this is only a temporary situation.
There is a good chance your ex is now dating someone else.
This is usually the last thing you want to hear, and the most difficult thing to deal with.
If you want your ex back then you have to come to terms with this and either accept it or move on.
You can't hold it against them.
If you do you are the only one that will lose.
You need to spend the time you have away from your ex.
It is important to no longer make contact with your ex and let them have some time to get their life together.
This is also what you are going to do.
You need to get your life together and do it on overdrive.
You have to get your mind off of your ex.
As difficult as this may sound, you can do it.
Here is what you need to do first.
Right now, go to a coffee shop and order something you have never ordered before.
If you have a regular coffee shop you like, go to a new one.
If you don't drink coffee, then go anyway.
The point is that you have to make changes in your life.
All of those projects you have been putting off need to be started right away.
Clean your home, and reorganize things.
Take lessons in something new.
Eventually your ex will contact you to find out how you have been, and they will see something new and different about you.
You probably asked repeatedly why and begged for another chance.
You probably said you would change and things would be different.
What your ex didn't tell you that you probably know deep down but refuse to admit, is that your ex has met someone else that has brought a breath of fresh air into what they feel like has been a slow moving, stagnant point in their life.
Don't despair, there is still hope if you listen carefully and pay close attention to sound advice.
Chances are that your ex still cares for you, and you most likely are not the only reason why they want to break up with you.
When you have been doing the same thing for so long you tend to get comfortable, and this is never a good thing in any relationship.
Everyone has fantasies and regrets about things they never accomplished in life.
You ex probably has been feeling as though their life isn't going anywhere and has discovered something or someone that has given them hope in making some forward progress.
What you need to do is accept this and start a game plan to win your ex back.
You tried the begging and pleading and it didn't work, so now you have to think about things differently.
You have lost your ex and you need to accept this first.
However, if you do things right this is only a temporary situation.
There is a good chance your ex is now dating someone else.
This is usually the last thing you want to hear, and the most difficult thing to deal with.
If you want your ex back then you have to come to terms with this and either accept it or move on.
You can't hold it against them.
If you do you are the only one that will lose.
You need to spend the time you have away from your ex.
It is important to no longer make contact with your ex and let them have some time to get their life together.
This is also what you are going to do.
You need to get your life together and do it on overdrive.
You have to get your mind off of your ex.
As difficult as this may sound, you can do it.
Here is what you need to do first.
Right now, go to a coffee shop and order something you have never ordered before.
If you have a regular coffee shop you like, go to a new one.
If you don't drink coffee, then go anyway.
The point is that you have to make changes in your life.
All of those projects you have been putting off need to be started right away.
Clean your home, and reorganize things.
Take lessons in something new.
Eventually your ex will contact you to find out how you have been, and they will see something new and different about you.