How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Out of an Abusive Situation
It is very saddening when your ex girlfriend and true love, is not only with the wrong person but also locked into an abusive situation.
Nobody deserves such treatment so you have no choice but to help her.
Helping means firstly getting her out of her situation.
Your ex's attitude will likely depend on her having confidence in you to act in her best interests and not necessarily your own.
So be sure you do what is good for her.
If she sees you as her hero, you may get her out of a deep hole that is potentially fatal.
People who have been abused often get back into the same situation.
Make sure she knows she can trust you as it will then be more difficult for her to ignore you.
She will likely have seen in the past that you can protect her.
If she didn't see that in the past, you will need to show her how you have changed.
She must see that she can trust you and that you are willing to listen to her.
You have to teach her that she deserves a better destiny.
Abusers teach their prey that they are insignificant and that they merit all the bad treatment they get.
She has lost her self esteem, so you are going to have to encourage her and show her you want her, if she is to recover it.
You must always get your ex girlfriend back from an abusive situation because she does not deserve to have to endure it any longer than necessary.
It will be easier to get her back if your motivation for getting her away from her abuser is well founded.
If you let her see that your main purpose is to get her back, you could compromise her safety.
Abusers are generally very jealous people; they need to control others and, if they see their prey trying to elude them, they can worsen their treatment.
This is why you must first consider her safety when you try to get your ex girlfriend back from an abusive situation.
When you see your ex girlfriend is in such trouble, you must help her.
It is easier to close your eyes to someone in need.
It may make your life more difficult but you can be sure you are doing the right thing.
Should you be successful, you will recover your ex girlfriend knowing that you probably helped to save her life.