As humans and as Christians, as men and as women, we ask questions of ourselves, God and others every day.
Some questions may seem a little bit on the personal or even awkward side and we are unsure of where to go.
We do not want to seem embarrassed or say something that would be considered rude.
We are human, though and we do want to have some answers, right? Here are a few of the common Christian sex questions asked by married couples.
Q.
What does God think about my husband and I having sex? A.
God does not have a problem with sexuality.
He gave the very first spouse to Adam at the beginning of time.
He gave wives to husbands throughout the Bible.
He knows better than any of us how children come into the world.
God made us co-creators with himself used the vehicle of sex to make it happen.
God gave us free will and desire and humanity so that we may live and love and enjoy life.
He respects our privacy and is always there for us when we need Him.
God is happy when we are happy and living lives that put Him first.
God rejoices when we are sexually intimate with our spouse, in the covenant of marriage.
The Bible shows us again and again that God knows we are and created us with a sexual desire and has in fact spoken many times of His disdain for adultery.
He therefore expects us to be sexual with our spouse.
He encourages us to be faithful and intimate with our spouses.
Q.
Is it wrong for me to feel sensual and approach my husband or should I wait for him to approach me? A.
Definitely not! Approach your husband.
Showing him that you desire him as much as he desires you can only bring more intimacy and fun to your private relationship.
"Sensuality" is not a bad word.
Neither is "sex".
Neither is "sexy".
You are in a relationship with the person you trust most in the world next to God.
Your husband wants you to show him you want him.
In fact, it would likely blow his socks off to have you really surprise him with your interest! Plan a surprise evening away from the kids.
Go to a bed and breakfast or just have a quiet night at home.
Whisper to him that you have a special surprise for him and then follow through.
Both of you will benefit and get the joy of a satisfying night and memories to last a lifetime.
Of course, the bonus is, they don't have to last a lifetime.
You can have those sensual feelings and act upon them again and again.
(and again...
and again...
) Q.
Is it a sin to enjoy sex so much? A.
Absolutely not! If the person desire in your heart is your husband and he's the person living life with you and being your partner in all areas of life, then you have every good reason to enjoy every part of your sexual intimacy with this person.
Enjoy your sexual relationship.
Doing so will make it more fulfilling for both you and your spouse.
There is nothing more sexually intimate or pleasurable than having a physical relationship with just one person.
Giving all of yourself emotionally and physically to that person benefits both of you.
Never be ashamed of that.
Your partner is your Adam and meant for you to love, honor and enjoy in every way.
Some questions may seem a little bit on the personal or even awkward side and we are unsure of where to go.
We do not want to seem embarrassed or say something that would be considered rude.
We are human, though and we do want to have some answers, right? Here are a few of the common Christian sex questions asked by married couples.
Q.
What does God think about my husband and I having sex? A.
God does not have a problem with sexuality.
He gave the very first spouse to Adam at the beginning of time.
He gave wives to husbands throughout the Bible.
He knows better than any of us how children come into the world.
God made us co-creators with himself used the vehicle of sex to make it happen.
God gave us free will and desire and humanity so that we may live and love and enjoy life.
He respects our privacy and is always there for us when we need Him.
God is happy when we are happy and living lives that put Him first.
God rejoices when we are sexually intimate with our spouse, in the covenant of marriage.
The Bible shows us again and again that God knows we are and created us with a sexual desire and has in fact spoken many times of His disdain for adultery.
He therefore expects us to be sexual with our spouse.
He encourages us to be faithful and intimate with our spouses.
Q.
Is it wrong for me to feel sensual and approach my husband or should I wait for him to approach me? A.
Definitely not! Approach your husband.
Showing him that you desire him as much as he desires you can only bring more intimacy and fun to your private relationship.
"Sensuality" is not a bad word.
Neither is "sex".
Neither is "sexy".
You are in a relationship with the person you trust most in the world next to God.
Your husband wants you to show him you want him.
In fact, it would likely blow his socks off to have you really surprise him with your interest! Plan a surprise evening away from the kids.
Go to a bed and breakfast or just have a quiet night at home.
Whisper to him that you have a special surprise for him and then follow through.
Both of you will benefit and get the joy of a satisfying night and memories to last a lifetime.
Of course, the bonus is, they don't have to last a lifetime.
You can have those sensual feelings and act upon them again and again.
(and again...
and again...
) Q.
Is it a sin to enjoy sex so much? A.
Absolutely not! If the person desire in your heart is your husband and he's the person living life with you and being your partner in all areas of life, then you have every good reason to enjoy every part of your sexual intimacy with this person.
Enjoy your sexual relationship.
Doing so will make it more fulfilling for both you and your spouse.
There is nothing more sexually intimate or pleasurable than having a physical relationship with just one person.
Giving all of yourself emotionally and physically to that person benefits both of you.
Never be ashamed of that.
Your partner is your Adam and meant for you to love, honor and enjoy in every way.