Sexuality for most women is a mind game, where you need to learn to be in control of both your, and her emotions.
Control is a difficult word to use here, because you don't want to be dominating.
A guy who can be relaxed, sweet and give her great mental foreplay has already won half the battle.
How you approach your next sexual situation with a woman is very important, but did you know that its widely believed that most women cannot achieve orgasm? Whether you believe this controversial statement or not, what is for certain are some key hot buttons that you can push to drive your lady absolutely crazy.
Every woman is different, so not all respond to the same triggers of ecstasy.
This is why it helps to have a partner who is willing to let you experiment with different techniques with them, but even if you have a girl in your life who is slightly uncomfortable with her sexuality, with the proper education - most men can learn the right techniques to make her orgasm.
For some its a wide range of oral techniques, for others its strictly clitoral stimulation, and for some women its never even any of these.
What I suggest, if you haven't already is to take a look at some DVDs.
There are plenty of them out there and they are excellent, and typically are devoted to just one aspect of sexuality.
This means you might just be able to pick up a few specific tricks.
If you know that girl that's in your heart well, I bet you that you can find something that really does it for her based on her character.
Think of "customizing" just for her, and sometimes as a guy it requires us to set aside our emotions to just feel out what she needs to help make her orgasm.