Anybody who is familiar with my "girl-getting" techniques knows I'm not about being Mr.
Cool and In-Control.
I'm not about sleeping with every girl in sight.
I just really like women, and I like to see men treat them well.
But I also like to see men get what they want because I'm trying to help them get over all the frustration that can come with approaching women, finding women, dating women, sleeping with women, and everything in between.
My methods are a bit unorthodox in that I'm not about playing all kinds of head games with women to somehow trick them into taking their clothes off.
I would much rather see men learn how to treat women how they really actually deserve to be treated and let the rest come naturally.
I'm a really big fan of the movie "Boys Don't Cry" because I think it gives a female perspective on a male mind...
if that makes any sense.
It seems to me that the main character knows exactly how to treat women (she is a woman pretending to be a man because she's a lesbian) and she knows right away how to get what she wants which is the girl.
I learned a lot from that movie, but it also confirmed a lot of what I already know about what attracts women.
Doing things from the heart and really meaning it, and how that trumps all the stupid "formulas" out there for "getting girls.
" And I know, a lot of you probably still don't believe me out there.
That's fine...
you do it your way and I'll do it mine.
Those who are attracted to my way will learn from it and others won't.
Which is just a difference of opinion.
Anyway, what I really learned from that movie was the simple fact that simple gestures and sincerity mean so much to women.
If you do get a chance, do watch the movie and see what I mean.
What I really want from your attempts to find what attracts women is for you to have a girl melt in your arms.
I don't want you to just be able to have a one-night stand.
I want you to be able to see into the depths of a girl's heart and respect it and be able to have her look back at you and do the same.
Sounds idealistic right? Well so does seeing tons of hot women naked and ready to pounce on you...
but that doesn't make it impossible.
Be optimistic.
Many of the so-called "gurus" of what attracts women are missing just one key ingredient: they're just acting.
They're playing a part to get women to sleep with them and then parting ways once the girl finds out whom they really are.
Who can live like that, honestly? Wouldn't it be easier to just be yourself and then naturally let yourself be attracted to women that you seem to have chemistry with? Keep in mind that it's a big world.
Whether you believe it or not, there are plenty of super hot women out there that you will have awesome chemistry with if only you can open up and find out who you really are and who she really is.
And they might not be on dating sites...
so you might have to just venture outside and be a little adventurous.
Sure there will be women that will respond well to a guy that puts on an act and pretends...
but I guess the question is, is that really the type of girl you want? Guys complain about how hot girls are always bitchy but they don't bother to realize how the premise of their relationship is so often based completely on lies and falseness so it should come as no surprise that that's exactly what she gives back to you.
It's something to think about, anyway.
What else am I doing except trying to help you? What motivation do I have to lie to you? Guys are so worried about not seeming vulnerable that they don't realize that being a bit vulnerable is the number one way to get a girl's trust and set her at ease.
Cool and In-Control.
I'm not about sleeping with every girl in sight.
I just really like women, and I like to see men treat them well.
But I also like to see men get what they want because I'm trying to help them get over all the frustration that can come with approaching women, finding women, dating women, sleeping with women, and everything in between.
My methods are a bit unorthodox in that I'm not about playing all kinds of head games with women to somehow trick them into taking their clothes off.
I would much rather see men learn how to treat women how they really actually deserve to be treated and let the rest come naturally.
I'm a really big fan of the movie "Boys Don't Cry" because I think it gives a female perspective on a male mind...
if that makes any sense.
It seems to me that the main character knows exactly how to treat women (she is a woman pretending to be a man because she's a lesbian) and she knows right away how to get what she wants which is the girl.
I learned a lot from that movie, but it also confirmed a lot of what I already know about what attracts women.
Doing things from the heart and really meaning it, and how that trumps all the stupid "formulas" out there for "getting girls.
" And I know, a lot of you probably still don't believe me out there.
That's fine...
you do it your way and I'll do it mine.
Those who are attracted to my way will learn from it and others won't.
Which is just a difference of opinion.
Anyway, what I really learned from that movie was the simple fact that simple gestures and sincerity mean so much to women.
If you do get a chance, do watch the movie and see what I mean.
What I really want from your attempts to find what attracts women is for you to have a girl melt in your arms.
I don't want you to just be able to have a one-night stand.
I want you to be able to see into the depths of a girl's heart and respect it and be able to have her look back at you and do the same.
Sounds idealistic right? Well so does seeing tons of hot women naked and ready to pounce on you...
but that doesn't make it impossible.
Be optimistic.
Many of the so-called "gurus" of what attracts women are missing just one key ingredient: they're just acting.
They're playing a part to get women to sleep with them and then parting ways once the girl finds out whom they really are.
Who can live like that, honestly? Wouldn't it be easier to just be yourself and then naturally let yourself be attracted to women that you seem to have chemistry with? Keep in mind that it's a big world.
Whether you believe it or not, there are plenty of super hot women out there that you will have awesome chemistry with if only you can open up and find out who you really are and who she really is.
And they might not be on dating sites...
so you might have to just venture outside and be a little adventurous.
Sure there will be women that will respond well to a guy that puts on an act and pretends...
but I guess the question is, is that really the type of girl you want? Guys complain about how hot girls are always bitchy but they don't bother to realize how the premise of their relationship is so often based completely on lies and falseness so it should come as no surprise that that's exactly what she gives back to you.
It's something to think about, anyway.
What else am I doing except trying to help you? What motivation do I have to lie to you? Guys are so worried about not seeming vulnerable that they don't realize that being a bit vulnerable is the number one way to get a girl's trust and set her at ease.