Do you feel like you are up against a brick wall trying to figure out what men need in their relationships today? Are you wondering why they say one thing and act completely different? Are you running around in circles trying to understand the male ego? You are certainly not alone; most women are truly at a loss comprehending what men need. Keep reading for some help.
Men are certainly contradictory with their words and with their actions. They profess a desire for an independent, reliable, responsible woman, yet they always seem to choose one that is quite different. Why?
A woman can be too good and this can be a problem. If a woman consistently provides everything a man could want, she removes all excitement from the relationship. There is no challenge; a guy doesn't get to feel the thrill of having to chase after something he wants. This woman doesn't understand that what men need is to feel the passion of working for something they can't easily have.
This is what you need to do. First, realize that men need to feel like men and this includes fighting for their woman. You have to make him desire you if you want him to fight for you, so start by adding to your physical appeal. You can easily build desire in a guy by the way you dress. The key is to find a balance between sexiness and classiness. It is fine to be provocative; but, by all means, do not cross over the line to trashiness.
Keep mystery and excitement alive in your relationship. Spend some time apart from your guy and let him miss you. Don't feel that you always have to let him know how you've spent your free time; some uncertainty keeps you interesting. Stop being so good about always answering his calls and being consistently prompt. Try to be a little less perfect so that you don't bore him with your perfection.
Finally, let him take the lead in moving your relationship along. The one thing men need more than anything else is to feel like they are in charge. It's a male ego thing and you can't lose if you keep it intact.
Men are certainly contradictory with their words and with their actions. They profess a desire for an independent, reliable, responsible woman, yet they always seem to choose one that is quite different. Why?
A woman can be too good and this can be a problem. If a woman consistently provides everything a man could want, she removes all excitement from the relationship. There is no challenge; a guy doesn't get to feel the thrill of having to chase after something he wants. This woman doesn't understand that what men need is to feel the passion of working for something they can't easily have.
This is what you need to do. First, realize that men need to feel like men and this includes fighting for their woman. You have to make him desire you if you want him to fight for you, so start by adding to your physical appeal. You can easily build desire in a guy by the way you dress. The key is to find a balance between sexiness and classiness. It is fine to be provocative; but, by all means, do not cross over the line to trashiness.
Keep mystery and excitement alive in your relationship. Spend some time apart from your guy and let him miss you. Don't feel that you always have to let him know how you've spent your free time; some uncertainty keeps you interesting. Stop being so good about always answering his calls and being consistently prompt. Try to be a little less perfect so that you don't bore him with your perfection.
Finally, let him take the lead in moving your relationship along. The one thing men need more than anything else is to feel like they are in charge. It's a male ego thing and you can't lose if you keep it intact.