Online dating really isn't as complicated as some believe...
Trust me! The real reason you can't find the one for you...
You don't know what you want or what you are looking for.
You just hope you will recognize it when you see it! It doesn't work that way...
You must know what you want and what you don't want.
You have to know the what this person must have, and what is not acceptable.
Too many singles go online browsing...
waiting to see what "catches" their eye.
This never works! Other singles approach it as if they are at a "rummage" sale.
Looking for the one with the least amount of flaws.
Then they start to design a plan for correcting the "flaws" that they accepted! Hopefully some of you are old enough to remember the "rummage" sales? I guess they are now called the "garage" or "yard" sales.
If you find a $3.
00 dress you look at it with the eyes of an "seamstress".
You will lower the hem, change the buttons, remove the bows on the shoulders, put splits up the sides, etc.
You found a great deal but it needs work! We will do the same thing online! "Once we alter him/her, we will have a great catch!" That is so backwards! And takes so much additional work! Online we do not have to settle for yard sales.
We can take our list of "wants" straight to the best department store in the world and walk away with an outfit to die for! (All it needs is a quick steam press!) The reason you can't find the one for you online is that you don't know exactly what you want.
My advice to you; do not go online to find love until you know exactly what you want.
Take that list, add as many online dating skills you can find.
You will end up with someone that looks like they stepped right out of the middle of your steamiest dreams!