We, at-home folks (both work-at-home and stay-at-home) get a lot of requests during the day simply because we are not tied to an office. ("Can you walk my dog?" or "Do you mind picking up the kids?")

We are often the go-to-gal for fundraisers and volunteer projects. But I think it is up to us to take control of the situation. Sure sometimes we might not mind helping. But if you do mind or can't do it, all you have to do is say no if someone is making an out-of-bounds requests.


I know that can be easier said than done. For me it really depends on the person asking and the favor. But one thing I always do when considering a request is mention that I do, in fact, work.

I say: "Well, let me check my work schedule and get back to you" or "I'm having a slow work week, so I might be able to help." Even if the asker knows I work, I figure it never hurts to remind them that I don't have unlimited time. And I think it helps. Although I accept a lot of packages, volunteer in school and have walked a dog or two, I rarely get out-of-bounds requests.

Tips for Dealing with Daytime Requests:

• Let the requester know that you do work.
• Consult your schedule. If you don't have time, even if you want to help, say no.
• Consider whether the request is ongoing or one-time. Does it set a precedent?
• Reflect on how well you know and like the requester. Will this person help you out? Would it be contributing to a cause you feel important?
• Explain your reason when you say no. This isn't easy but it will help reduce future requests.