There is an issue that comes up now and again regarding Christian intimacy and that is Christian cursing during sex.
Should this be allowed within a Christian relationship? Is it a horrible sin? There are different ways to approach the issue of Christian cursing during sex.
Here are some answers that will provide solutions on how to deal.
1.
Your partners reaction.
First off, we can focus on one of the most important aspects, your loving partner.
Do they get offended, disturbed, uncomfortable, or shamed upon hearing swear language during sex? If it presents a big problem within your intimacy then that should be grounds enough to cease it right there.
If they are confused by it and don't know what to think, then it still is presenting a problem in your sex life and you should discuss it more and find out where the verbal cursing is really coming from.
2.
Where is it coming from? Christian cursing during sex is a sin if it's coming from a place of hate or anger.
Generally swear words can be used to convey rage, hatred, or degradation.
If swearing during sex is used in this manner then it should be eliminated immediately.
Furthermore, if the language is used to solely convey the act of sex and lust with little regard to your loving partner, then this also constitutes a form of degradation towards the amazing gift of sex between to loving individuals.
3.
Cursing = Pleasure? What if Christian cursing during sex is a reaction to pleasure as opposed to more negative aspects? What if the occasional slip occurs, yet emanating from a place of positive pleasure rather than hate? If your partner can truly understand that such language is a reaction towards the union between one another, and only is intended to come from a place of pleasure, then cursive usage that does occurs should not get vilified.