The 20 Most Important Questions You Must Ask Any Man You Want To Date
1.
Do you want children? -- It is best to get this out of the way early so you know if his thoughts match yours.
2.
What religious organization do you belong to? --While it might not be the end of your relationship, it is good to know if your religious beliefs are different.
3.
What are your thoughts on politics? --Again, find out about differences early.
Are his political beliefs and ideologies those of the democratic, republican, independent etc? 4.
Do you see your job as your career? --This will give you an idea if he is settled in his job or if he will be changing jobs often.
This may not be a bad thing depending on his line of work.
If he is a consultant, and IT professional or a businessman.
5.
How long ago was your last relationship, and how long did it last? -- His answer here will let you know if he is on the rebound and if he knows what it is to be in a long term relationship.
6.
Why did your last relationship end? --If he walked out on his last relationship over trivial matters that could be easily resolved, then you know he will not last long with you.
7.
What are some of your pet peeves? --By knowing this, you will know if you can live with what annoys him.
8.
Where do you see yourself five years from now? --This may seem like a simple question, but it is important to know how he is planning his life and how you possibly fit into it.
9.
Do you think you are ready to settle down? --This is a quick way to find out if he is even thinking of marriage at this point in his life.
If he is not and you are, then he may not be the right match for you.
10.
Do you like (dogs, cats, whatever animal you have)? --His disposition to pets will let you know if you will get along with whatever pets you may have.
11.
Do you enjoy what you do for a living? --It is better to ask him a question that will draw out what he does for a living than asking him directly what kind of work he does.
Some men may think that you are a gold digger especially if they make a lot of money.
12.
What do you think about (name an issue important to you)? --Again, this helps you see if he shares some of the same interests.
13.
How many people have you had romantic relationships with in the past 10 years? -- This establishes whether or not he is a player.
14.
What are your hobbies? --The more you have in common the better.
If your hobbies are complementary or they happen to be different but fit into the kinds of hobbies you would like to learn more about, then that is a good thing.
15.
Are you settling down in this city for a while? --Know his answer to this question helps you figure out if his plans if living in a particular place fit yours.
16.
What are your parents like? --It is always nice to have an idea of what the in-laws will be like.
17.
What is your favorite movie? --The movies a man likes can tell you little bit about who he really is.
18.
What kind of woman do you see yourself settling down with? --If the kind of woman he would like to settle down with may or not be your the kind of person you are.
His answer to this question will certainly reveal that to you.
19.
Why did you ask me out? --His response will give you an indication of whether he is looking for a long term relationship or just a one night stand.
20.
What is your idea of the most romantic thing two people can do together? --His response will help you gauge how romantic he is, and also gives you an insight into what you can expect if you were to decide to let him into your life.
Do you want children? -- It is best to get this out of the way early so you know if his thoughts match yours.
2.
What religious organization do you belong to? --While it might not be the end of your relationship, it is good to know if your religious beliefs are different.
3.
What are your thoughts on politics? --Again, find out about differences early.
Are his political beliefs and ideologies those of the democratic, republican, independent etc? 4.
Do you see your job as your career? --This will give you an idea if he is settled in his job or if he will be changing jobs often.
This may not be a bad thing depending on his line of work.
If he is a consultant, and IT professional or a businessman.
5.
How long ago was your last relationship, and how long did it last? -- His answer here will let you know if he is on the rebound and if he knows what it is to be in a long term relationship.
6.
Why did your last relationship end? --If he walked out on his last relationship over trivial matters that could be easily resolved, then you know he will not last long with you.
7.
What are some of your pet peeves? --By knowing this, you will know if you can live with what annoys him.
8.
Where do you see yourself five years from now? --This may seem like a simple question, but it is important to know how he is planning his life and how you possibly fit into it.
9.
Do you think you are ready to settle down? --This is a quick way to find out if he is even thinking of marriage at this point in his life.
If he is not and you are, then he may not be the right match for you.
10.
Do you like (dogs, cats, whatever animal you have)? --His disposition to pets will let you know if you will get along with whatever pets you may have.
11.
Do you enjoy what you do for a living? --It is better to ask him a question that will draw out what he does for a living than asking him directly what kind of work he does.
Some men may think that you are a gold digger especially if they make a lot of money.
12.
What do you think about (name an issue important to you)? --Again, this helps you see if he shares some of the same interests.
13.
How many people have you had romantic relationships with in the past 10 years? -- This establishes whether or not he is a player.
14.
What are your hobbies? --The more you have in common the better.
If your hobbies are complementary or they happen to be different but fit into the kinds of hobbies you would like to learn more about, then that is a good thing.
15.
Are you settling down in this city for a while? --Know his answer to this question helps you figure out if his plans if living in a particular place fit yours.
16.
What are your parents like? --It is always nice to have an idea of what the in-laws will be like.
17.
What is your favorite movie? --The movies a man likes can tell you little bit about who he really is.
18.
What kind of woman do you see yourself settling down with? --If the kind of woman he would like to settle down with may or not be your the kind of person you are.
His answer to this question will certainly reveal that to you.
19.
Why did you ask me out? --His response will give you an indication of whether he is looking for a long term relationship or just a one night stand.
20.
What is your idea of the most romantic thing two people can do together? --His response will help you gauge how romantic he is, and also gives you an insight into what you can expect if you were to decide to let him into your life.