10 Reasons Why Your Ex Won"t Take You Back! If You Are Doing These, Then You Don"t Stand a Chance!
Most people don't even realize that they are making these mistakes, but "innocent" mistake or not, they literally ruin all of your chances of getting your ex back.
In fact these things should be avoided at all costs.
Under NO circumstances, should you do any of these 10 things, because if you do, your ex won't take you back: 10.
Accusing your ex - This is blaming and it only shows them that you aren't willing to stand up and admit YOUR OWN faults.
Be able to admit where you went wrong, and leave the rest out of the picture.
You should forgive your ex if you really want them back anyways.
9.
Threatening - Blackmailing or trying to force them to take you back with threats only makes your ex feel really afraid of you.
It is like the "cowards" way to try and make someone like you again, and really only makes them hate you.
8.
Insulting - Calling your ex names and insulting him/her when they don't take you back only makes your ex feel hurt even more, and tells them they are right not to take you back.
7.
Faking an emergency - Pretending that someone is seriously wrong to try and make them call you back.
This ticks your ex off, and is like crying wolf, and breaks your ex's trust completely.
6.
Seeing other people intimately - Your ex will feel as though you cheated on them and lied, because you are with someone else, but are telling them you want them back.
It's insulting to them.
5.
Making up excuses - Instead of just taking action and changing, you make up excuses like saying "you know it's hard for me", or giving silly reasons as to why you cannot change.
It tells your ex you are really not willing to be the person they need.
4.
Only being appreciative after the fact - This means you shower your ex with compliments and tell them "I love you" when you never did this before.
It makes your ex feel unappreciated.
3.
Forgetting important things - Your ex may have told you something, or maybe there was something important like their birthday...
and you forget it.
This shows your ex that you really don't care.
2.
Trash talking your ex - Going around behind his/her back and trash talking them.
Your ex will find out eventually and will feel really betrayed.
You either like your ex or you don't, and if you do, you shouldn't risk losing your ex to something silly you said behind their back.
1.
Lying to your ex still - Why lie to your ex if you really want them back? Just be honest, they will appreciate it then, and will be more susceptible to wanting you back because you have the guts to be honest.
In fact these things should be avoided at all costs.
Under NO circumstances, should you do any of these 10 things, because if you do, your ex won't take you back: 10.
Accusing your ex - This is blaming and it only shows them that you aren't willing to stand up and admit YOUR OWN faults.
Be able to admit where you went wrong, and leave the rest out of the picture.
You should forgive your ex if you really want them back anyways.
9.
Threatening - Blackmailing or trying to force them to take you back with threats only makes your ex feel really afraid of you.
It is like the "cowards" way to try and make someone like you again, and really only makes them hate you.
8.
Insulting - Calling your ex names and insulting him/her when they don't take you back only makes your ex feel hurt even more, and tells them they are right not to take you back.
7.
Faking an emergency - Pretending that someone is seriously wrong to try and make them call you back.
This ticks your ex off, and is like crying wolf, and breaks your ex's trust completely.
6.
Seeing other people intimately - Your ex will feel as though you cheated on them and lied, because you are with someone else, but are telling them you want them back.
It's insulting to them.
5.
Making up excuses - Instead of just taking action and changing, you make up excuses like saying "you know it's hard for me", or giving silly reasons as to why you cannot change.
It tells your ex you are really not willing to be the person they need.
4.
Only being appreciative after the fact - This means you shower your ex with compliments and tell them "I love you" when you never did this before.
It makes your ex feel unappreciated.
3.
Forgetting important things - Your ex may have told you something, or maybe there was something important like their birthday...
and you forget it.
This shows your ex that you really don't care.
2.
Trash talking your ex - Going around behind his/her back and trash talking them.
Your ex will find out eventually and will feel really betrayed.
You either like your ex or you don't, and if you do, you shouldn't risk losing your ex to something silly you said behind their back.
1.
Lying to your ex still - Why lie to your ex if you really want them back? Just be honest, they will appreciate it then, and will be more susceptible to wanting you back because you have the guts to be honest.