To get her, the one you love but does not seem to realise you do to go from friend to girlfriend is a tough ordeal.
Many guys have managed to completely screw this up and end up with estranged friends or mired further and further into the friend zone that all their chances and confidence gets destroyed.
How to move her from friend to girlfriend therefore requires that you do not make the mistakes of others.
So let's learn from the history of thousands of guys who failed to get the girl of their dreams to become their girlfriend and NOT do the same thing! Do not tell her you are attracted to her Your heart might be bursting and you want nothing less than to confess your love.
You might even have friends suggest to you that you just gotta try...
well, they are not in the same situation and don't know a thing! If you start showing that you want to go beyond a friendship while she still thinks of you as just a friend you are going to scare the hell out of her and she will not know how to react.
Your chance is probably going to be completely blown...
so for the moment, keep it to yourself.
Don't badmouth their current boyfriend While you might think he is a jerk who treats he like garbage and you just want him to be out of the picture.
Being petty and sly and trying to make her see him as an awful man does not do you any credit.
It does not matter if she has a boyfriend you see because this is all about YOU and how YOU are perceived by her female mind.
Forget outside influences, make yourself desirable and she will choose the right one.
Don't be a total jerk You may have heard that to attract women you need to be an "alpha male".
This is correct but some confuse an alpha male with someone who is confident but also a jerk.
Many guys who are confident, decisive and work the ladies very well have realised their power and abuse it.
They are the jerks who play with women and destroy them or just outright be nasty pieces of work and still get the girls! These guys use some of what being a man is about but add on less desirable elements.
Don't be that guy.
To get her form friend to girlfriend You need to start making yourself look like a man and a potential lover not a cosy friend and to do that you need to be confident and decisive and know the female brain inside out!
Many guys have managed to completely screw this up and end up with estranged friends or mired further and further into the friend zone that all their chances and confidence gets destroyed.
How to move her from friend to girlfriend therefore requires that you do not make the mistakes of others.
So let's learn from the history of thousands of guys who failed to get the girl of their dreams to become their girlfriend and NOT do the same thing! Do not tell her you are attracted to her Your heart might be bursting and you want nothing less than to confess your love.
You might even have friends suggest to you that you just gotta try...
well, they are not in the same situation and don't know a thing! If you start showing that you want to go beyond a friendship while she still thinks of you as just a friend you are going to scare the hell out of her and she will not know how to react.
Your chance is probably going to be completely blown...
so for the moment, keep it to yourself.
Don't badmouth their current boyfriend While you might think he is a jerk who treats he like garbage and you just want him to be out of the picture.
Being petty and sly and trying to make her see him as an awful man does not do you any credit.
It does not matter if she has a boyfriend you see because this is all about YOU and how YOU are perceived by her female mind.
Forget outside influences, make yourself desirable and she will choose the right one.
Don't be a total jerk You may have heard that to attract women you need to be an "alpha male".
This is correct but some confuse an alpha male with someone who is confident but also a jerk.
Many guys who are confident, decisive and work the ladies very well have realised their power and abuse it.
They are the jerks who play with women and destroy them or just outright be nasty pieces of work and still get the girls! These guys use some of what being a man is about but add on less desirable elements.
Don't be that guy.
To get her form friend to girlfriend You need to start making yourself look like a man and a potential lover not a cosy friend and to do that you need to be confident and decisive and know the female brain inside out!