Trying to deal with the pain of a breakup is difficult enough but knowing your ex girlfriend is with someone else then those feelings of pain and rejection become magnified and unbearable.
You feel as though getting her back is pretty much impossible right now, however there is still a glimmer of hope and I will tell you why.
So how is it possible to get your ex girlfriend back when she is seeing someone else? After a breakup people often fall into a rebound relationship.
Your ex felt a sudden change in her life and day to day activities.
Being alone is very difficult after being in a relationship for a long time period of time and it creates a void.
She may have felt a need to go out and find someone to help fill this void and to act as coping mechanism to deal with the breakup.
Rebound relationships don't work out 90% of the time because it's a flawed coping mechanism.
The only reason you jump into a relationship immediately after one ended is to help you deal with the temporary pain.
After a while, your ex will realise that there is just no substance to her new 'relationship' and will soon finish things with him once she realises the relationship no longer meets her needs.
Knowing that her new relationship is most likely doomed to fail you can relax a bit and actually use it to your advantage.
The worst thing you can do is panic and get jealous of them seeing someone new.
Showing your disapproval will only push her towards new love! By acting indifferent, your ex may become curious and start asking questions in her head like: "He doesn't care I'm seeing someone new, he mustn't have cared to begin with.
" or "Why isn't he getting jealous? Is he seeing someone new?" The more questions your ex girlfriend asks herself the more she will be thinking about you which is obviously a good thing.
It doesn't matter if she is thinking good thoughts or bad thoughts, what matters is she is thinking about YOU, even if she is with another guy.
So remember the trick to get your ex girlfriend back when she's with someone else is to play it cool, calm and confident.
Her actions should have no affect on your emotions.
If you start panicking and acting insecure about her seeing someone new you will only drive her away.
You feel as though getting her back is pretty much impossible right now, however there is still a glimmer of hope and I will tell you why.
So how is it possible to get your ex girlfriend back when she is seeing someone else? After a breakup people often fall into a rebound relationship.
Your ex felt a sudden change in her life and day to day activities.
Being alone is very difficult after being in a relationship for a long time period of time and it creates a void.
She may have felt a need to go out and find someone to help fill this void and to act as coping mechanism to deal with the breakup.
Rebound relationships don't work out 90% of the time because it's a flawed coping mechanism.
The only reason you jump into a relationship immediately after one ended is to help you deal with the temporary pain.
After a while, your ex will realise that there is just no substance to her new 'relationship' and will soon finish things with him once she realises the relationship no longer meets her needs.
Knowing that her new relationship is most likely doomed to fail you can relax a bit and actually use it to your advantage.
The worst thing you can do is panic and get jealous of them seeing someone new.
Showing your disapproval will only push her towards new love! By acting indifferent, your ex may become curious and start asking questions in her head like: "He doesn't care I'm seeing someone new, he mustn't have cared to begin with.
" or "Why isn't he getting jealous? Is he seeing someone new?" The more questions your ex girlfriend asks herself the more she will be thinking about you which is obviously a good thing.
It doesn't matter if she is thinking good thoughts or bad thoughts, what matters is she is thinking about YOU, even if she is with another guy.
So remember the trick to get your ex girlfriend back when she's with someone else is to play it cool, calm and confident.
Her actions should have no affect on your emotions.
If you start panicking and acting insecure about her seeing someone new you will only drive her away.