Its very common for guys to ask themselves the question after a breakup, "How can I get my ex girlfriend back?" But the fact is if you are asking yourself this question, then perhaps the breakup wasn't as devastating as you thought and the relationship just be able to be saved.
Of course a lot of this hinges on the idea that she is asking herself the same question, but let's look a few things you might consider as a first step in getting your ex back.
First off if there are any hurt feelings for which you should apologize for then this is the first step, and you should seriously consider a heart felt apology.
With that out of the way, lets answer that question how can I get my ex girlfriend back? Well, one of the best things that you can do is to show her how much you miss her.
Now I'm not referring to being overly "needy" about it, as this will only come off as being fake.
But if your gestures of love and concern are genuine, then she just might take notice.
The idea is to let her know your true feelings and then pay attention to what she does.
If your gestures are met with frustration and she only pushes away, then you might have to change your tactics until you find something that she responds to.
For example if giving her flowers or a card only frustrates her, then maybe because this was the typical "guy response" and doesn't come off as being genuine.
So you have to try and put yourself in her shoes, and find an expression that really shows her how much you care.
After all a very common complaint among women is that men aren't thoughtful.
Were you thoughtful during the relationship? If you weren't then trying to be overly so right now, will only come off as being fake and she will smell a rat.
So be patient.
Every positive effort, adds to its momentum so keep up your efforts, but underlying it all is you have to be genuine.