Whether you're male or female, young or mature, it's always sad to see a good relationship begin to crumble.
Sometimes the relationship begins to fail because of disagreements and constant bickering.
Other times the relationship breaks apart because passion has disappeared.
This is the time to realize you need to do everything in your power to turn up the heat in your love life, including using pheromones, getting a makeover and anything else that will make you more attractive to your guy or girl.
Stoke the fire Did you ever look at a wood fire that appears to have died out because the ashes are all gray and you feel no heat? Did you ever stick the fireplace poker in the gray ashes and stir them around? You may have noticed that many times, hidden underneath the layer of gray ash, there are red-hot coals that spring to life once stoked.
When your relationship seems to have died out, just like that fire, it might just need some stoking.
Pheromones are an inexpensive but powerful way to get your loved one's attention.
Your love interest won't even know you're using them, but the effects will be noticeable because your guy or gal will seem more interested in you right away.
Here are more tips that will help you heat up a relationship that's going cold.
Get a makeover For guys: A makeover may be something as simple as getting ready for each date as if it were a first date.
Shave before you go out, wear clean, pressed clothes and get a haircut if you need it.
Also, if your girlfriend always comments on how she likes the look of guys with mustaches, why not grow one? Or, if she's dropped a lot of hints she's not wild over your goatee, then shave it off.
For women: If you've switched from wearing cute skirts to old sweats, it's time to turn up the heat again.
Most guys like to see girls wearing feminine clothing like short skirts, cute tops and heels.
You can't dress like that all the time, but if you want to get that fire going again, remember men are visual creatures who do respond to the looks of a well-groomed, feminine woman.
Recapture the good times Many times relationships start off great, and you both are having a wonderful time.
But once the initial attraction starts to morph into a more serious relationship, couples change.
Guys let their guard down figuring the chase is over, and they don't have to continue to work at being romantic.
Women are also guilty of becoming complacent in a long-term relationship, and they may forget to do the things that keep guys happy like listen to what he has to say, participate in the fun activities you once shared or do little things you used to do like pack him a special lunch or give him a back rub.
Grow with the relationship Nothing stays the same.
Maybe when you first met, you were both in college and partied all the time.
Now one of you has a demanding job and never seems to want to go out, while the other person still wants to live the fun, free college lifestyle.
Change is inevitable and that's when you need to compromise in order to get the relationship back on track.
In this example, both people had to move a little towards center.
From too much partying to no partying, the couple was able to agree on going out once on the weekend and they were able to keep their passion alive.
Sometimes the relationship begins to fail because of disagreements and constant bickering.
Other times the relationship breaks apart because passion has disappeared.
This is the time to realize you need to do everything in your power to turn up the heat in your love life, including using pheromones, getting a makeover and anything else that will make you more attractive to your guy or girl.
Stoke the fire Did you ever look at a wood fire that appears to have died out because the ashes are all gray and you feel no heat? Did you ever stick the fireplace poker in the gray ashes and stir them around? You may have noticed that many times, hidden underneath the layer of gray ash, there are red-hot coals that spring to life once stoked.
When your relationship seems to have died out, just like that fire, it might just need some stoking.
Pheromones are an inexpensive but powerful way to get your loved one's attention.
Your love interest won't even know you're using them, but the effects will be noticeable because your guy or gal will seem more interested in you right away.
Here are more tips that will help you heat up a relationship that's going cold.
Get a makeover For guys: A makeover may be something as simple as getting ready for each date as if it were a first date.
Shave before you go out, wear clean, pressed clothes and get a haircut if you need it.
Also, if your girlfriend always comments on how she likes the look of guys with mustaches, why not grow one? Or, if she's dropped a lot of hints she's not wild over your goatee, then shave it off.
For women: If you've switched from wearing cute skirts to old sweats, it's time to turn up the heat again.
Most guys like to see girls wearing feminine clothing like short skirts, cute tops and heels.
You can't dress like that all the time, but if you want to get that fire going again, remember men are visual creatures who do respond to the looks of a well-groomed, feminine woman.
Recapture the good times Many times relationships start off great, and you both are having a wonderful time.
But once the initial attraction starts to morph into a more serious relationship, couples change.
Guys let their guard down figuring the chase is over, and they don't have to continue to work at being romantic.
Women are also guilty of becoming complacent in a long-term relationship, and they may forget to do the things that keep guys happy like listen to what he has to say, participate in the fun activities you once shared or do little things you used to do like pack him a special lunch or give him a back rub.
Grow with the relationship Nothing stays the same.
Maybe when you first met, you were both in college and partied all the time.
Now one of you has a demanding job and never seems to want to go out, while the other person still wants to live the fun, free college lifestyle.
Change is inevitable and that's when you need to compromise in order to get the relationship back on track.
In this example, both people had to move a little towards center.
From too much partying to no partying, the couple was able to agree on going out once on the weekend and they were able to keep their passion alive.