Tricks to Winning an Ex Back - Get You Ex Back Using Counter Intuitive Methods
Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex and are feeling quite devastated.
The fact is you still love your ex very much and really want to get him/her back to your side.
So, how can you win your ex back? Is it really achievable? Or is it the end of the relationship? Well, a break up does not necessary spell the end of your relationship.
Although no one can tell you that you will certainly be able to win your ex back, there are certain tactics that you can use to increase your chances of reconciliation.
First, forget about all those logical things that you are going to do or have already done.
The fact is, logical action doesn't help you to win an ex back.
In fact, it can make the situation worse.
Of course, if you have already made some of those mistakes, do not worry as there are probably still things you can do to remedy the situation.
Also do not blame yourself for the mistakes.
We are just normal human beings and just can't help making mistakes, especially when we are feeling emotionally vulnerable.
For now, let us look at one example of a common mistake.
What happen if you call your ex and your ex is ignoring you? Chances are, you will start to feel a bit panic.
So, the logical thing to do seems to be to call your ex over and over again until he/she answer the phone.
And of course, in this situation, the logical thing is not the right thing to do.
Calling your ex again and again will only show him/her that you are desperate.
Desperation will only drive him/her further away.
You will lose him/her before you even have the chance to win him/her back.
However, if you use counter intuitive method, you will stand a much higher chance to win your ex back.
For example, if your ex says he/she wants to break up with you, you will probably want to argue with him/her about it.
Unfortunately, arguing is definitely not going to work.
You will be much better off by being counter intuitive.
Instead of arguing over the break up, agree with him/her.
Be okay with the break up.
This kind of attitude is not what your ex expects.
It will keep the door open for you to implement the next step to win your ex back.
The fact is you still love your ex very much and really want to get him/her back to your side.
So, how can you win your ex back? Is it really achievable? Or is it the end of the relationship? Well, a break up does not necessary spell the end of your relationship.
Although no one can tell you that you will certainly be able to win your ex back, there are certain tactics that you can use to increase your chances of reconciliation.
First, forget about all those logical things that you are going to do or have already done.
The fact is, logical action doesn't help you to win an ex back.
In fact, it can make the situation worse.
Of course, if you have already made some of those mistakes, do not worry as there are probably still things you can do to remedy the situation.
Also do not blame yourself for the mistakes.
We are just normal human beings and just can't help making mistakes, especially when we are feeling emotionally vulnerable.
For now, let us look at one example of a common mistake.
What happen if you call your ex and your ex is ignoring you? Chances are, you will start to feel a bit panic.
So, the logical thing to do seems to be to call your ex over and over again until he/she answer the phone.
And of course, in this situation, the logical thing is not the right thing to do.
Calling your ex again and again will only show him/her that you are desperate.
Desperation will only drive him/her further away.
You will lose him/her before you even have the chance to win him/her back.
However, if you use counter intuitive method, you will stand a much higher chance to win your ex back.
For example, if your ex says he/she wants to break up with you, you will probably want to argue with him/her about it.
Unfortunately, arguing is definitely not going to work.
You will be much better off by being counter intuitive.
Instead of arguing over the break up, agree with him/her.
Be okay with the break up.
This kind of attitude is not what your ex expects.
It will keep the door open for you to implement the next step to win your ex back.