Here are a couple of first date suggestions for you.

1. Focusing to far into the future and determining a relationship to early

After searching through photos and profiles of potential matches, you now start the communicating phase and all communication has been going extremely well and you start to think that maybe this is the person for you and you now have that mindset, putting yourself in this mindset can only set you up for disappointment. When you have that mindset going into a first date you won't be able to enjoy the dating process of getting to know who this person is, because you already have a specific mindset about that person, it so important to go on that first date with an open mind that you are going to relax, haven fun and get to know that persons.

2. Letting your nerves take over the first date

Unfortunately, so many singles end up ruining their first date because they are to nervous and were not themselves, causing a lack of communication on that all important first date and impressions. If you are so concerned with how your dates perception of you is, this will only keep you nervous and not be able to relax and have fun. Singles often will let this happen and end up have dates that never actually had a chance to be successful. Remember that if it does not work out with this person, there are many more singles to choose from in those online dating sites. With the best dating sites offering more and more advanced matchmaking technology it will not be hard to start searching for singles again assuming this date goes wrong.