Despite the narcissist's plan to eject you from his life, when divorce is imminent, he or she plays a diabolically dirty game.
The narcissist will do everything in his power to create a chaotic, excruciating end to the marriage.
Narcissists hire one or more attorneys to do their bidding and are often narcissistic themselves.
If the narcissistic spouse is affluent, money is used as a weapon to financially and psychologically wear down and cause collapse to the other party.
Attorneys for the narcissist use every legal loophole in the book to block the fair resolution of the marriage and to confuse and intimidate the other party into total submission.
The narcissist moves adroitly to create shock and trauma to the other spouse.
He finds ingenious ways of concealing his assets.
The narcissist solicits and pays off business partners or members of his family to spirit away his assets to safe havens.
Narcissists during a divorce are famous for pivoting into full "victim mode", blaming their spouse for everything that went wrong with the marriage.
During the divorce they pepper the other party with accusations: turning the children against him, falsely accusing the spouse of prescription drug abuse, intimate relationships with others, complaining that the partner created overwhelming stress that negatively affected the narcissist's work performance and ability to earn money.
The narcissist's extreme cunning, lack of conscience and wild delusional imagination conjure up a nightmare for the other spouse.
Narcissists are accomplished actors and many individuals caught up in this drama will not believe the real victim.
Before the narcissist makes his final exit, he is determined to get more than his pound of flesh.
Acquiring specific information about the narcissistic personality, learning to protect yourself against their frontal attacks and ambushes and mastering techniques for dealing with them, will bring you the freedom to create the life you richly deserve.