Dating Tips To Avoid Firestorms
Sometimes, the girl insist on always being right, and rather than listening calmly to what you have to say, they escalate any disagreement into the third World War.
They may think that yelling the loudest makes them victorious, when in fact they may be big losers.
We live in an information era where everyone realizes how critical and valuable information is.
Closing off discussions by throwing a temper tantrum prevents her from hearing the information she needs in order to evaluate you as her potential candidate on her dating list.
You might have to ask yourself the question, "Why did she end up arguing with me?" First things first, it is good to have a little friction when you are trying to entice her with a bit of conflict when you are trying to seek her attention.
However, when her spark turns into a rage, it is time to hold back.
How do you know when it is the right time to hold back your views? Perhaps it is when you are tackling thorny topics, and you try to avoid it.
It is possible that you avoid thorny topics but she will need to know what your perspectives towards important topics are before she considers becoming your girl or wife.
If you are a chief executive office of some company, she might never agree with you that there are no risky investments.
In your perspective, you may consider the investments to be not risky as you have the relevant expertise but she will not agree with you because she has no knowledge of your expertise.
Finances are tricky issues to deal with in a relationship.
In addition to that, religion is another tricky issue when the both of you have different religious beliefs.
To make matters worse, you may have fallen in love with a staunch catholic who prefers you to spend your Sunday mornings with her at the church instead of making the regular visits at your parents place every week.
Another example will be if you really intend to spend your life with this girl, your wedding ceremony can be the first source of conflict.
Learn the correct topics to discuss during your dates for a smooth and successful dating experience.