When asking yourself should I save my marriage, you must do some serious soul searching to come up with the answer for yourself.
It would be great if a trusted adviser could look at all the information regarding our marriage and tell us whether we should let try to get back together.
Unfortunately, we have to do our own heavy lifting.
Evaluate what is good and what is bad in your marriage.
Make sure you are seeing the actual problems and not just symptoms of the problems.
Probably the most important issue to ponder is whether you and your spouse are truly happy together, because if you are, as long as nothing really bad has happened between you, you probably have a decent chance of working things out.
If both of you are committed to repairing the marriage, you both will probably need to let some old grudges die.
Understand that no one is perfect and that we have to let go of issues that may have been really eating at us in the past.
It would be best to discuss these issues together so your spouse knows how you feel.
Once you've gotten your feelings out, just let go of it and move on.
You want to think about the problems in your marriage and whether they have ever been addressed or worked on.
If they haven't been addressed, they might not be that hard to fix.
Imagine, you might have a problem that can be resolved by just discussing it together.
Over time situations that aren't talked about can take on a life of their own and become completely overblown.