You are single again, and you hate it, and you desperately want to get your ex back. However, you didn't break up under the best circumstances, so you can see no way getting your ex back. Yes you can! Simply read to find out how.

First things first: communication.

It's best to meet in a place that is neutral to both of you. Avoid meeting in a place that's familiar and where you share memories. You want to communicate without remembering the good and bad times. You need to talk about what went wrong and how you can change this. Try to think about the thing you want to talk about before going to the meeting. Also, don't go there to attack your ex, you want to talk about what happened and try to patch thing up.

The second thing you need to do: apologize!

Along the way, in your relationship, you both made mistakes. And you're both guilty of at least one thing. You don't want to point fingers, you want to share the blame. Apologize for what you did, and do it truthfully. Try to be specific, don't go general. When you go specific, you also have the change to ask how you can fix the harm done. However, remember this: don't take full responsibility for everything that went wrong - this will only give your ex the chance to be free of guilt and dislike you even more.

The next thing to do is to get your ex back.

Talking things out and apologizing might have eased up things, but don't put any pressure on him or her. Let this come naturally, because once you did all of the above, he or she will see that you see things maturely, and want the best for the two of you. Give your ex some space and he or she will come back to you - especially if you don't rush things.