There are 3 turnoffs for women you can commit that will definitely and absolutely DESTROY your possibilities with ALL girls.
Even if you look like Channing Tatum, have a body like Thor, and croon like Justin Bieber, doing any one of these 3 deadly sins will immediately and completely make you the untouchable. Even if you are charming, amusing, and mange to open the girl and have an enjoyable conversation, presenting even a trace of any of these fatal sins will definitely make all your efforts worthless.
Girls like to chat. Additionally, they love to talk about guys. And when they talk about guys, the discussion unavoidably turns in to an all out men-bashing session. Women have a long checklist of qualities, attributes, and traits that they DETEST in guys. It's a miracle that the human race is able to propagate if you listen closely in on some of these sessions.
There are lots of little things that men do that annoy the heck out of girls. These are little quirks that they live with and bear with, though. However, there are 3 primary themes that are fatal sins. These 3 things are labeled as fatal sins since they're total deal breakers and will KILL your chances with girls, particularly beautiful girls.
1) Giving up your status/pride for her attention and approval.
Have you ever in your life fell for a girl so hard that you would be willing to do anything to get her? Including acting like somebody you're not, or even worse, swallowing your ego because she wants you to? You believed this will help increase your chances with the girl or get the woman to like you a bit more. You figured the woman would acknowledge and appreciate your efforts on her behalf, even to the point of debasing your value.
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH! Women, particularly attractive women, that have a lot of chumps like you at her beck and call, will certainly not appreciate your efforts to debase yourself to please her. She'll just take you for granted and expect you to continuously please her. Regrettably, her attraction level to you will never ever reach critical mass.
Women positively despise it, either knowingly or subconsciously, when a guy does something to demonstrate that he'll give away his power and ego for her approval. This action basically decreases a guy's value, and as we know, precisely what attracts a woman to a guy is his regarded value. If you decrease your value for anything, even for her, you will actually decrease her attraction level towards you.
2) Acting needy, clingy, and insecure.
It's Biology: when an organism clings to another organism because it needs something, it is called parasitism. The clingee is called the host and the clinger is called a parasite. Naturally, this is not a mutually beneficial partnership and the host denies the parasite.
The same thing happens in the male-female interaction. If a guy clings to a girl emotionally and acts needy, the woman will naturally deny that parasite. Have you ever before had a woman cling to you? It is borderline stalking and it is scary. This is lack of confidence at its worst, and we also know that girls are attracted to guys with SELF-CONFIDENCE.
If you finally secure a date with that cutie you are hopelessly in love with, will you let her out of your sight for 2 mins? Will you let her wander off and talk to her guy friends? Won't you be unsure and apprehensive and desperately seek her approval?
Congrats, you just totally turned her off and you will NEVER, EVER get a 2nd chance.
3) Trying to get her to lead
"What would you like to do?".
"Where would you like to eat?".
"Where would you like to go?".
Girls typically will not try to lead, so if you attempt to follow a person that does not lead, the interaction is doomed to fail. Worse, this following mentality comes from an overall lack of self-confidence and insecurity. If a man cannot lead, exactly how can he support his wife and children?
If you can not take the interaction by the reins and handle the situation as a man, girls will instantly smell your insecurity and reject you. Besides, a lot of women would like to be spoiled and led by a guy in control, a man of high value and self-confidence.
Even if you look like Channing Tatum, have a body like Thor, and croon like Justin Bieber, doing any one of these 3 deadly sins will immediately and completely make you the untouchable. Even if you are charming, amusing, and mange to open the girl and have an enjoyable conversation, presenting even a trace of any of these fatal sins will definitely make all your efforts worthless.
Girls like to chat. Additionally, they love to talk about guys. And when they talk about guys, the discussion unavoidably turns in to an all out men-bashing session. Women have a long checklist of qualities, attributes, and traits that they DETEST in guys. It's a miracle that the human race is able to propagate if you listen closely in on some of these sessions.
There are lots of little things that men do that annoy the heck out of girls. These are little quirks that they live with and bear with, though. However, there are 3 primary themes that are fatal sins. These 3 things are labeled as fatal sins since they're total deal breakers and will KILL your chances with girls, particularly beautiful girls.
1) Giving up your status/pride for her attention and approval.
Have you ever in your life fell for a girl so hard that you would be willing to do anything to get her? Including acting like somebody you're not, or even worse, swallowing your ego because she wants you to? You believed this will help increase your chances with the girl or get the woman to like you a bit more. You figured the woman would acknowledge and appreciate your efforts on her behalf, even to the point of debasing your value.
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IS FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH! Women, particularly attractive women, that have a lot of chumps like you at her beck and call, will certainly not appreciate your efforts to debase yourself to please her. She'll just take you for granted and expect you to continuously please her. Regrettably, her attraction level to you will never ever reach critical mass.
Women positively despise it, either knowingly or subconsciously, when a guy does something to demonstrate that he'll give away his power and ego for her approval. This action basically decreases a guy's value, and as we know, precisely what attracts a woman to a guy is his regarded value. If you decrease your value for anything, even for her, you will actually decrease her attraction level towards you.
2) Acting needy, clingy, and insecure.
It's Biology: when an organism clings to another organism because it needs something, it is called parasitism. The clingee is called the host and the clinger is called a parasite. Naturally, this is not a mutually beneficial partnership and the host denies the parasite.
The same thing happens in the male-female interaction. If a guy clings to a girl emotionally and acts needy, the woman will naturally deny that parasite. Have you ever before had a woman cling to you? It is borderline stalking and it is scary. This is lack of confidence at its worst, and we also know that girls are attracted to guys with SELF-CONFIDENCE.
If you finally secure a date with that cutie you are hopelessly in love with, will you let her out of your sight for 2 mins? Will you let her wander off and talk to her guy friends? Won't you be unsure and apprehensive and desperately seek her approval?
Congrats, you just totally turned her off and you will NEVER, EVER get a 2nd chance.
3) Trying to get her to lead
"What would you like to do?".
"Where would you like to eat?".
"Where would you like to go?".
Girls typically will not try to lead, so if you attempt to follow a person that does not lead, the interaction is doomed to fail. Worse, this following mentality comes from an overall lack of self-confidence and insecurity. If a man cannot lead, exactly how can he support his wife and children?
If you can not take the interaction by the reins and handle the situation as a man, girls will instantly smell your insecurity and reject you. Besides, a lot of women would like to be spoiled and led by a guy in control, a man of high value and self-confidence.