At the moment, you are so devastated by the break up, that you don't even notice obvious things.
The only thing on your mind right now is to fix the problems that you have and get back together with your ex again.
Of course you do! The only thing is, your emotions are in such turmoil at the moment, that you are unable to see the obvious signs that your ex wants you back.
No matter what anyone says to you right now, you won't see them either - your heartache is clouding your mind and you are incapable of anything right now.
So, what's the solution to this problem? It's easy - heal yourself first.
You are not going to like this, but the only way that this is possible, for you to NOT make contact with your ex for a while.
Just take some time off from the break up a well as your ex, and in a few days you will be able to think a lot clearer, and you will probably see the signs that your ex wants you back.
For instance, is your ex always hanging in the background whenever you are with your friends? This shows that your ex still wants to see you, even if only from a distance, and is willing to just stand in the sidelines for a chance to see you.
Speaking of your friends, what do they say about your ex? Listen carefully to what they tell you about your ex - has your ex said that he/she regrets breaking up with you? Did your ex tell your friends that he/she still loves you more than anything in the world? Please, these are such obvious signs that your ex wants you back, that they practically scream at you! If you start getting text messages from your ex, what do they say? Is your ex saying that he/she doesn't want to see you anymore? I don't think so! Your ex is more than likely saying that he/she misses you and would like to see you again - not so? So, take a deep breath and relax - there are signs that your ex wants you back - just stay calm and you'll have no problem seeing them, and your life will be back on track again.