When you break up with someone many men will ask themselves "What happened?" or "Why did she break up with me?" This article looks at a strategy for getting back with your ex.
Should I write a letter? Send some flowers? The problem is that this nearly always leads to trouble, mainly because men may never understand the reasons why the breakup happened.
Men and women are clearly different; women think differently from men and so they react to certain situations in their own way.
Women are more emotional and they may not realise the reasons that they broke up in the first place.
As men it can be very frustrating trying to think of all the reasons why you may have broken up.
If you continue down that path it will make you nuts! The best solution is to stop thinking about it and create some space for your self.
You need some distractions, a change of scenery, and new challenges.
Go out and try new thinks, socialise with your friends, and leave women alone.
Once you have created some space and have put your ex at the back of your mind, then learn to make changes in your behaviour, Make improvements in how you are with women, try to understand more about relationships.
Work out what went wrong and become a better person.
After a while you will feel more comfortable, happier and more confident in how to deal with relationships.
Now this is the time you have to ask yourself if you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend? If you do, then you need to understand how she is feeling about you.
It is probable that she is missing you as well, but you need to find out.
At this stage do not beg her to come back with you.
You have to play it cool with her otherwise she will walk away.
Resume contact with her and be polite and friendly but do not show her how you feel for a while.
Is she wants you back then she will let you know with little signs and through her friends.
Remember not to think to hard about why you broke up, just concentrate on the positives for the future.
If you do get back together then there is time to talk through things and reawaken the love that you had for each other.
Should I write a letter? Send some flowers? The problem is that this nearly always leads to trouble, mainly because men may never understand the reasons why the breakup happened.
Men and women are clearly different; women think differently from men and so they react to certain situations in their own way.
Women are more emotional and they may not realise the reasons that they broke up in the first place.
As men it can be very frustrating trying to think of all the reasons why you may have broken up.
If you continue down that path it will make you nuts! The best solution is to stop thinking about it and create some space for your self.
You need some distractions, a change of scenery, and new challenges.
Go out and try new thinks, socialise with your friends, and leave women alone.
Once you have created some space and have put your ex at the back of your mind, then learn to make changes in your behaviour, Make improvements in how you are with women, try to understand more about relationships.
Work out what went wrong and become a better person.
After a while you will feel more comfortable, happier and more confident in how to deal with relationships.
Now this is the time you have to ask yourself if you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend? If you do, then you need to understand how she is feeling about you.
It is probable that she is missing you as well, but you need to find out.
At this stage do not beg her to come back with you.
You have to play it cool with her otherwise she will walk away.
Resume contact with her and be polite and friendly but do not show her how you feel for a while.
Is she wants you back then she will let you know with little signs and through her friends.
Remember not to think to hard about why you broke up, just concentrate on the positives for the future.
If you do get back together then there is time to talk through things and reawaken the love that you had for each other.