Are you missing your ex? Whether the two of you were just sweethearts or you were married, the love you had for each other was true.
The relationship is over but the feelings that you once have for your ex is still there.
Faded, but still there.
If you are still thinking about your ex, then maybe it's time to put the spark back.
How do you that? Make Yourself Available - If you are in a relationship however casual, end that relationship.
It's a lost battle if your ex finds out that you are dating.
It's not important whether your current date is serious or not.
What would reflect on your ex is that you are dating anyway and that would make him/her keep distance.
Drop a Note - Don't call your ex just yet.
Send him/her a card that says "hello!" Sending a card by slow mail is more romantic as no one sends cards anymore.
Stop yourself from sending something really "cheesy" as it might turn your ex off.
A nice "hello-how-are-you" kind of card will do.
Your ex will most likely call to thank you.
Be Interesting - Make an effort to improve yourself.
If you actually took up a new hobby or a new sport, then you can have something new to talk about when you finally have the chance to talk with your ex.
You will be more interesting as a person for you have made an effort to enrich yourself.
Your ex will admire the new you.
Talk It Out - Having opened the channel of communication, don't overwhelm your ex with talks of getting back together.
You just have to learn to be more patient.
Wait for the right time to talk about a possible reconciliation.
If your ex is in a relationship, that would be a complication.
However, if both of still have some feelings left for each other it's best to talk it out and resolve the matter.